"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friend-Zone breakup, is there a way back in? :o

tadhgire

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I know the whole deal of being friendzoned before even getting anywhere with a chick, but I've been going out with a chick for the last few weeks and tonight I was friendzoned, due to my own stupid actions, and I know what they are..
When she told me on the phone I acted totally agreeable and as though I wanted the same thing and that I was glad she did it 'because I really wasnt sure if it would work out' etc...
Basically, my current plan is to just act like the breakup didnt affect me at all and that I'm having a great time etc, will hookup with some other chicks over next few days and hopefully she will start reconsidering her decision and start crawling back! :p

My question is whether a friendzone breakup(after going out together etc...) is much different then a friendzone rejection(not even hooking up), because if they're the same then I'll probably just cut my losses(though I reaallly like this girl) as a friendzone is a pretty difficult situation to get out of pre-hookup :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skytzo_Marc

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Dude move on. Any breakup is the end of a relationship in my book. If a girl breaks up with me, her loss. If she regrets it later, it's not my problem. I'll find someone who appreciates me so much that they don't even want to consider breaking up.
 

woods

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You're doing the right thing. I've had chicks keep coming back after that shyt cuz I played it cool. I probably shouldnt have took them back, but at least I can say they came crawling back, anyway.

Actually, I think its best to demote them to FB status after they pull that shyt. All the benefits, none of the responsibility. If you were good in bed, they wont have a problem with that.
 
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