"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Friend-Zone breakup, is there a way back in? :o

tadhgire

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I know the whole deal of being friendzoned before even getting anywhere with a chick, but I've been going out with a chick for the last few weeks and tonight I was friendzoned, due to my own stupid actions, and I know what they are..
When she told me on the phone I acted totally agreeable and as though I wanted the same thing and that I was glad she did it 'because I really wasnt sure if it would work out' etc...
Basically, my current plan is to just act like the breakup didnt affect me at all and that I'm having a great time etc, will hookup with some other chicks over next few days and hopefully she will start reconsidering her decision and start crawling back! :p

My question is whether a friendzone breakup(after going out together etc...) is much different then a friendzone rejection(not even hooking up), because if they're the same then I'll probably just cut my losses(though I reaallly like this girl) as a friendzone is a pretty difficult situation to get out of pre-hookup :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skytzo_Marc

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Dude move on. Any breakup is the end of a relationship in my book. If a girl breaks up with me, her loss. If she regrets it later, it's not my problem. I'll find someone who appreciates me so much that they don't even want to consider breaking up.
 

woods

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You're doing the right thing. I've had chicks keep coming back after that shyt cuz I played it cool. I probably shouldnt have took them back, but at least I can say they came crawling back, anyway.

Actually, I think its best to demote them to FB status after they pull that shyt. All the benefits, none of the responsibility. If you were good in bed, they wont have a problem with that.
 
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