friend with privileges

[paraguayandj]

story: I met this girl about 5 days ago. I started running game, kissing her and eventually having sex with her. She told me I was the first person she ever had sex with, after she told me that, I knew that it meant trouble, but I did it anyways because I was horny and when somebody is horny is like being drunk, you don't think before you do anything : . After the third time we had sex, she asked me: We are boyfriend and girlfriend now right?
After she asked me that I was thinking for about 5 minutes what to say, the only thing that came out of my mouth was "sure"


problem: Well, this girl is hot and everything, but I don't think that I want to be her boyfriend, but I also enjoy having sex with her, and I want to keep doing that. The only plan that I had was to ask her if instead of boyfriend and girlfriend to be "friends with privileges". I didn't ask her yet, but I want to hear some comments and tips of how to ask her to do that, because I don't know whether I should just go and ask her that. So if you were ever in my situation and got away with it, do me a favor and hit me up with some tip of how can I do this.
I tried the bible, but I couldn't quite find what I was looking for, but if anybody finds something similar, please refer me to it, I will appreciate any cooperation that I get from you guys.

 

[Sart]

easy

Just a state of mind. Words mean nothing. At this stage you have TOTAL power over her. Just don't ACT like a boyfriend, ACT like a fukc buddy. Its up to her to join the dots and decide for herself whether it suits her or not. I wouldn't "say" anything, I would "act" as I desired. You have all the hand, no need to compromise it. PLUS, she never had sex before????? Did you bust her hyman, haha. Was their blood? What I am saying is what most guys my age would say, "never listen to what she says, watch what she does". Yes, I think it is bullshyte, she was not a first timer, but WHO CARES?

 

[paraguayandj]

yeah there was blood, blood that she spread in my car. The reason I mentioned that she was a virgin is that for girls, the first time is a big deal. For me and most guys is not, I can't even remember the name of the girl I first got sex with.
Since is a big deal to them, they become very attached to the guy, and is hard to get rid of them :woo: if you know what I mean

 

[Morphiex]

if ur the first for her then it is almost imposible that ull become friends with privleges..... and dont even think about mentioning that u want to be , it has to come from the girl or else it wont happen... but i think u should start acting like ur here special friend already and give her some nights of increadible sex and i think grdually shell come around....

 

[cave dweller]

buddy.......

Hey,

I have had a fvck buddy for several years now.

She gives me a 'booty call' about once a week. (I don't call her, she calls me)

I keep her in the 'special friend zone'.

She wants to go out and date and do things together, but, I will not go there with her.

If you work it right you can build a 'fvck buddy' relationship that could last for several years.

Good luck.

cave dweller