Yo!
Had this girl friend for a few years. Recently, I joined the army, I myself changed, became more ballsy so to speak. When in training, this friend of mine (who we were quite close friends before this) changed herself as well, matured a bit, became a more appreciative person and hence a "better" friend, if you know what I mean. So when in training abroad, she sent me various I love you, I miss you messages, I was keeping contact too. Now I know this girl from my AFC days, I didn't have any interest with her then, it wasn't any oneitis connected to this relationship.
Anyway! I return from training, start talking a bit more, sent a few pics of me uniform, and boom, everything changes. She kept going on about how great I look, how she loves a man in uniform, I said something like "you must be horny" and she went on about how her hormones had got her, she was having to hold herself back from assaulting someone, blah blah. Later in the day she goes on about her next boyfriend being an officer and they would do it in uniform and **** like that. I switched up the conversation vibe and since then it's been all game, and it's having positive effects, keeping up the sexual tone in our conversations.
Anyway, the question is after that somewhat befuddled introduction is, is it just her taking out her sexual frustrations on me, someone she trusts but isn't worried will take it the wrong way, or is it genuinely towards me?
If it's the second, what's the best way to bring it to a more physical relationship? Kino is key, but any ideas to get that link would be a help, in this particular situation, should I treat it differently because she was friends before?
Don't say "NEXT" or anything like that, I want to know about this situation, I could just do nothing and keep it as it is, I have no problems or hangups or oneitis or anything.
Had this girl friend for a few years. Recently, I joined the army, I myself changed, became more ballsy so to speak. When in training, this friend of mine (who we were quite close friends before this) changed herself as well, matured a bit, became a more appreciative person and hence a "better" friend, if you know what I mean. So when in training abroad, she sent me various I love you, I miss you messages, I was keeping contact too. Now I know this girl from my AFC days, I didn't have any interest with her then, it wasn't any oneitis connected to this relationship.
Anyway! I return from training, start talking a bit more, sent a few pics of me uniform, and boom, everything changes. She kept going on about how great I look, how she loves a man in uniform, I said something like "you must be horny" and she went on about how her hormones had got her, she was having to hold herself back from assaulting someone, blah blah. Later in the day she goes on about her next boyfriend being an officer and they would do it in uniform and **** like that. I switched up the conversation vibe and since then it's been all game, and it's having positive effects, keeping up the sexual tone in our conversations.
Anyway, the question is after that somewhat befuddled introduction is, is it just her taking out her sexual frustrations on me, someone she trusts but isn't worried will take it the wrong way, or is it genuinely towards me?
If it's the second, what's the best way to bring it to a more physical relationship? Kino is key, but any ideas to get that link would be a help, in this particular situation, should I treat it differently because she was friends before?
Don't say "NEXT" or anything like that, I want to know about this situation, I could just do nothing and keep it as it is, I have no problems or hangups or oneitis or anything.
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