Friend says all I think about is sex lmao..

[Chrom3y]

Was at lunch with my friend n two other chicks. One he apparently likes and whom I'd also like to fvck lol. yea so after readin all this for about a year my confidence is finally shining through, and I've started to add the sex talk to my convos with b!tches.

Here it is:

Friend: Man your chin hair got long as hell, I still got pubes on my chin (lmao)
HBiwannafvck: It's cuz u been eatin pvssy haha
Me: yea a lil bit, u sound like u want some head
HBiwannafvck: (smiling and leaning in towards me) No! I don't need head
Me: Oh so you must have a steady supply of d!ck huh?
HBiwannafvck: Nooo your crazy! Stop (still smiling ear to ear)
Me: Ok well lemme know when you want an orgasm

There was more but I dont feel like typing it. Just wanted you guys opinion..how did I do? I mean Im just getting started with the whole talking about sex, I used to shy away from it cuz I thought it was "unacceptable".

By the way, the entire lunch time my friend barely even talked to this chick and the other chicks after talking all this trash about how he's trying to game them. Wtf.. Then apparently she tells him over the phone that i talk about sex too much lol, then he tells me what she said. I'm guessing he wants me to stop? hell no lol. She was clearly enjoying it, positive body language and everything. Oh I grabbed her tit too, she laughed and gave me a light punch lol. Baby steps . Oh and I figured her saying I talk about sex too much is the anti-slvt shield right? Any words on this?

 

[Accension]

By creating a thread about any individual girl, you've already failed.
It's kind of like saying "LOL I'm still so shi- at this whole game thing that I'm going to get advice from people on the internets!"

With that being said, solve your own problems from now on; most advice here is from fellow AFCs.

You'll improve much faster by dealing with all your own problems but feedback never hurts.

Also, no single girl deserves a whole thread on the interwebz devoted to her.
Look at DJ Discussion.
Just a big wad of guys second guessing themselves and acting like their problems are unique because the girl is 'so unique and hot man'.

You still have much to learn and it starts in me saying most guys that talk about sex a lot, talk about it because it's the very thing they lack.
It's probably why in HS there's all these little pubescents talking about sex and raging over how shi- their hormones are.

Evolve your mindset beyond any high schooler.
This whole game thing will mess with your head for a good while before things actually make sense and theories stop contradicting so much.

 

[Chrom3y]

Wow man way to dog me lol. I don't talk about it cuz I lack it, I dont care for it much anyway cuz every time it hasnt been good yet lmao. Everybody starts somewhere, and if I need or want advice from this site then I'll ask for it. That's why most people join the forum in the first place. And this is a chick I was sh!t scared to talk to before I had any confidence, kinda why I posted. And I'm sure I asked 2 questions or w/e in my OP, so if you're gonna dog me, thanks, if your gonna give feedback, bigger thanks

 

[Scars]

Was at lunch with my friend n two other chicks. One he apparently likes and whom I'd also like to fvck lol. yea so after readin all this for about a year my confidence is finally shining through, and I've started to add the sex talk to my convos with b!tches.

Here it is:

Friend: Man your chin hair got long as hell, I still got pubes on my chin (lmao)
HBiwannafvck: It's cuz u been eatin pvssy haha
Me: yea a lil bit, u sound like u want some head
HBiwannafvck: (smiling and leaning in towards me) No! I don't need head
Me: Oh so you must have a steady supply of d!ck huh?
HBiwannafvck: Nooo your crazy! Stop (still smiling ear to ear)
Me: Ok well lemme know when you want an orgasm

There was more but I dont feel like typing it. Just wanted you guys opinion..how did I do? I mean Im just getting started with the whole talking about sex, I used to shy away from it cuz I thought it was "unacceptable".

By the way, the entire lunch time my friend barely even talked to this chick and the other chicks after talking all this trash about how he's trying to game them. Wtf.. Then apparently she tells him over the phone that i talk about sex too much lol, then he tells me what she said. I'm guessing he wants me to stop? hell no lol. She was clearly enjoying it, positive body language and everything. Oh I grabbed her tit too, she laughed and gave me a light punch lol. Baby steps . Oh and I figured her saying I talk about sex too much is the anti-slvt shield right? Any words on this?

One thing you need to realize is that woman love talking about sex, but at a a sub-communicative level. What I mean by this is yes, you are talking about sex, but it's also innocent at the same time. You were pretty blunt with your sex talk, which does work to a certain extent but if overdone it just makes you seem perverted. There's no shame in sexuality, we're all men, but if you start talking about it too much then these girls are simply going to think it's your #1 priority. Try using more sub-communication, use your eyes and body language, also start reading hers. Try a different approach, instead saying all these things through your mouth try using your eyes to say it. Turn a seemingly innocent conversation into something sexual, that's what they love. Most girls wont tell you straight up "Hey, I wanna fvck", they tell you through sub-communication. They may be saying "No" with their mouths, but their body is telling a completely different story. Just use your gut.

-Scars

 

[Chrom3y]

Man thank you so much. That's what I was trying to tell my friend. But honestly, I'm kinda stuck on the whole sub-communicating my sexuality part. You say use my eyes instead of my mouth, but I don't really understand this part. You mean look deeply into her eyes? And you're right, I can't talk about it everyday lol. Conveying sexuality through eye contact: any explanations?

 

[Scars]

Think of it how models do it during a photoshoot. The thing that drives the shot is emotion. They can't talk to you through a picture, so they have to capture the moment in a still frame. They dress cute and innocent, maybe wearing a sun-dress or something but they have that I-want-to-take-you-out-back-and-rip-all-your-clothes-off look in their eyes. Does it make more sense now? In all honesty it should come completely natural. If I am in lust with a girl and I am having conversation with her, I just look into her eyes a lot, and for some reason I naturally give off this sexual aura. I've actually had a girl tell me once, "I knew we were going to have sex from the very first time I met you", when I asked her in confusion why she simply said "It was the way you looked at me". Even though I hadn't even said ANYTHING sexual the first time I ever met her.

-Scars

 

[Chrom3y]

Wow that's cool lol. Yea I get it. Now that you said it to me, I think I do do it a lot, at least with this one chick anyway. But thanks, I'm gonna try and get this eye contact thing handled. And I know the perfect first step too lol. As of right now one chick makes my balls pop everytime I walk by her. We give each other heavy eye contact and dammit this chick never breaks it lol. Hopefully I'll sack up and go for it tomorrow, it's senior year after all..