"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Friend or Therapist

bob2007

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I feel like a lot of women 30+ will message me chat with me, but I feel like I'm just playing therapist. Emotional tampon, I guess I've read this enough on these forums to be able to avoid this. I'm working on several businesses and need to sell my software and platforms. There has been 0 times a sale is made through these female friends.

This year 2019, I find maybe even some of my older male friends are making me a therapist.
They write me random things that don't uplift me.
i.e. One guy keeps sending me stuff where Chinese are victims in the USA.
He'll say stuff like we are hopeless. blablabla
They tell me I'm wrong when I know I'm right.
They dont' help when they can help with software problems I have.

Would you guys agree I should just drop all these people?
Maybe social media is making people too reachable, especially since I work from home and trade stocks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Steel_Neurons

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Yeah, been there. I cut all social media out. This forum is pretty much it for me for talking to random online people.
 
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