"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friend of a friend's wife changed her last name to her maiden name on Facebook

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So last night during the game this dude is stressin over this. He said there have been no signs of cheating. But she did leave him for another dude years ago and then came back pregnant with the other guy's kid and he fought to keep him legally out of the picture and succeeded. He's been proudly toting around this kid as his own. And they have 2 other of their own much older.

What do you all think about the name change on FB? I didn't really know what to say about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So last night during the game this dude is stressin over this. He said there have been no signs of cheating. But she did leave him for another dude years ago and then came back pregnant with the other guy's kid and he fought to keep him legally out of the picture and succeeded. He's been proudly toting around this kid as his own. And they have 2 other of their own much older.

What do you all think about the name change on FB? I didn't really know what to say about it.
Your friend should have dumped his wife years ago. She is definitely garbage. I would say that changing her name on facebook is a red flag, but so is running off and getting knocked up by some chad. Your friend values his wife to much. He needs to get over that. Anyway, I don't see this ending well by the way you have described your friend.
 

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So last night during the game this dude is stressin over this. He said there have been no signs of cheating. But she did leave him for another dude years ago and then came back pregnant with the other guy's kid and he fought to keep him legally out of the picture and succeeded. He's been proudly toting around this kid as his own. And they have 2 other of their own much older.

What do you all think about the name change on FB? I didn't really know what to say about it.
I think the poor bastard shot himself in the foot by rewarding a cheater with a relationship. The fact that she left for another guy is horrible, but now it is deplorable that he took her back pregnant and welcomed her back with open arms.

He basically taught her "no matter how horrible you are i will always roll over and let you fack me again and again"

She changed her name back most likely she is getting ready to branch swing to the next guy.
 

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Jesus H Christ some of these women MAKE ME SICK.

Just blatant in your face sh*t like changing to her maiden name on facebook. I honestly think if it was legal to hit women this wouldn't happen. They know nothing can happen to them when they do stuff like this. P*ssy guys today do the same thing.

Back in the day if some guy or woman really f*cked you over you either slugged him one good one and/or slapped her across the face and people had enough integrity back then to say "yeah, I deserved that one, now let's all move on". These days, you go to jail for sh*t like that and yes I know from first hand experience. At least I have the famous NYPD mugshot for the rest of my life :cool:
 

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Jesus H Christ some of these women MAKE ME SICK.

Just blatant in your face sh*t like changing to her maiden name on facebook. I honestly think if it was legal to hit women this wouldn't happen. They know nothing can happen to them when they do stuff like this. P*ssy guys today do the same thing.

Back in the day if some guy or woman really f*cked you over you either slugged him one good one and/or slapped her across the face and people had enough integrity back then to say "yeah, I deserved that one, now let's all move on". These days, you go to jail for sh*t like that and yes I know from first hand experience. At least I have the famous NYPD mugshot for the rest of my life :cool:
All you can do is just walk away. Women will treat you like dirt if you left them. Just leave, no therapy, no i'm sorry I won't do it again. Get your stuff in order and leave or kick the bit ch out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jesus H Christ some of these women MAKE ME SICK.

Just blatant in your face sh*t like changing to her maiden name on facebook. I honestly think if it was legal to hit women this wouldn't happen. They know nothing can happen to them when they do stuff like this. P*ssy guys today do the same thing.

Back in the day if some guy or woman really f*cked you over you either slugged him one good one and/or slapped her across the face and people had enough integrity back then to say "yeah, I deserved that one, now let's all move on". These days, you go to jail for sh*t like that and yes I know from first hand experience. At least I have the famous NYPD mugshot for the rest of my life :cool:
This ^

Btw, there are some people who still do this, I was watching a crime show last night and he had met this lady a year before, who btw was down on her luck, had been single off and on for ten years, pumped and dumped. So of course he played capt save a hoe' moved her in, took care of her, paid her bills, etc. Well how does she repay him?
By cheating behind his back with the first guy who came along(he was a fat and out of shape muther fuker too). So, instead of just leaving she had the nerve to throw this in his face as she was leaving. But of course she didnt get far. He cut her head off and dismenbered her body..
 
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This ^

Btw, there are some people who still do this, I was watching a crime show last night and he had met this lady a year before, who btw was down on her luck, had been single off and on for ten years, pumped and dumped. So of course he played capt save a hoe' moved her in, took care of her, paid her bills, etc. Well how does she repay him?
By cheating behind his back with the first guy who came along(he was a fat and out of shape muther fuker too). So, instead of just leaving she had the nerve to throw this in his face as she was leaving. But of course she didnt get far. He cut her head off and dismenbered her body..
Whoa fella.... I'm not advocating murdering anyone. I'm just saying that back in the day you were allowed, and it was socially acceptable, to take your anger out in proportion to what had happened to you. Usually a shot to the face or a slap took care of that. But never ever risk a life sentence over women or anyone else for that matter. They ain't worth it!
 

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This ^

Btw, there are some people who still do this, I was watching a crime show last night and he had met this lady a year before, who btw was down on her luck, had been single off and on for ten years, pumped and dumped. So of course he played capt save a hoe' moved her in, took care of her, paid her bills, etc. Well how does she repay him?
By cheating behind his back with the first guy who came along(he was a fat and out of shape muther fuker too). So, instead of just leaving she had the nerve to throw this in his face as she was leaving. But of course she didnt get far. He cut her head off and dismenbered her body..
Why doesn't it surprise me that you are bringing a fake story on fake television to a forum to discuss men's real life issues?

One day you will wake up, son.
 

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Why doesn't it surprise me that you are bringing a fake story on fake television to a forum to discuss men's real life issues?

One day you will wake up, son.
How do you know his story is fake? There are plenty of true crime tv shows where people go fubar and kill their spouses. He's not promoting killing anyone he's just sharing a f*cked up story like OP was.

The sad part is their are countless men like OP described. A co-worker of mine is going through some similar sh*t. Unfortunately, these guys are beyond repair and will more than likely never change. Hopeless cases.
 

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A lot of women either use their maiden name or hyphenate so that their childhood friends can find them.

It's actually very common, but that wouldn't fly in my household.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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