"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Friend of a friend's wife changed her last name to her maiden name on Facebook

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So last night during the game this dude is stressin over this. He said there have been no signs of cheating. But she did leave him for another dude years ago and then came back pregnant with the other guy's kid and he fought to keep him legally out of the picture and succeeded. He's been proudly toting around this kid as his own. And they have 2 other of their own much older.

What do you all think about the name change on FB? I didn't really know what to say about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So last night during the game this dude is stressin over this. He said there have been no signs of cheating. But she did leave him for another dude years ago and then came back pregnant with the other guy's kid and he fought to keep him legally out of the picture and succeeded. He's been proudly toting around this kid as his own. And they have 2 other of their own much older.

What do you all think about the name change on FB? I didn't really know what to say about it.
Your friend should have dumped his wife years ago. She is definitely garbage. I would say that changing her name on facebook is a red flag, but so is running off and getting knocked up by some chad. Your friend values his wife to much. He needs to get over that. Anyway, I don't see this ending well by the way you have described your friend.
 

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So last night during the game this dude is stressin over this. He said there have been no signs of cheating. But she did leave him for another dude years ago and then came back pregnant with the other guy's kid and he fought to keep him legally out of the picture and succeeded. He's been proudly toting around this kid as his own. And they have 2 other of their own much older.

What do you all think about the name change on FB? I didn't really know what to say about it.
I think the poor bastard shot himself in the foot by rewarding a cheater with a relationship. The fact that she left for another guy is horrible, but now it is deplorable that he took her back pregnant and welcomed her back with open arms.

He basically taught her "no matter how horrible you are i will always roll over and let you fack me again and again"

She changed her name back most likely she is getting ready to branch swing to the next guy.
 

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Jesus H Christ some of these women MAKE ME SICK.

Just blatant in your face sh*t like changing to her maiden name on facebook. I honestly think if it was legal to hit women this wouldn't happen. They know nothing can happen to them when they do stuff like this. P*ssy guys today do the same thing.

Back in the day if some guy or woman really f*cked you over you either slugged him one good one and/or slapped her across the face and people had enough integrity back then to say "yeah, I deserved that one, now let's all move on". These days, you go to jail for sh*t like that and yes I know from first hand experience. At least I have the famous NYPD mugshot for the rest of my life :cool:
 

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Jesus H Christ some of these women MAKE ME SICK.

Just blatant in your face sh*t like changing to her maiden name on facebook. I honestly think if it was legal to hit women this wouldn't happen. They know nothing can happen to them when they do stuff like this. P*ssy guys today do the same thing.

Back in the day if some guy or woman really f*cked you over you either slugged him one good one and/or slapped her across the face and people had enough integrity back then to say "yeah, I deserved that one, now let's all move on". These days, you go to jail for sh*t like that and yes I know from first hand experience. At least I have the famous NYPD mugshot for the rest of my life :cool:
All you can do is just walk away. Women will treat you like dirt if you left them. Just leave, no therapy, no i'm sorry I won't do it again. Get your stuff in order and leave or kick the bit ch out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jesus H Christ some of these women MAKE ME SICK.

Just blatant in your face sh*t like changing to her maiden name on facebook. I honestly think if it was legal to hit women this wouldn't happen. They know nothing can happen to them when they do stuff like this. P*ssy guys today do the same thing.

Back in the day if some guy or woman really f*cked you over you either slugged him one good one and/or slapped her across the face and people had enough integrity back then to say "yeah, I deserved that one, now let's all move on". These days, you go to jail for sh*t like that and yes I know from first hand experience. At least I have the famous NYPD mugshot for the rest of my life :cool:
This ^

Btw, there are some people who still do this, I was watching a crime show last night and he had met this lady a year before, who btw was down on her luck, had been single off and on for ten years, pumped and dumped. So of course he played capt save a hoe' moved her in, took care of her, paid her bills, etc. Well how does she repay him?
By cheating behind his back with the first guy who came along(he was a fat and out of shape muther fuker too). So, instead of just leaving she had the nerve to throw this in his face as she was leaving. But of course she didnt get far. He cut her head off and dismenbered her body..
 
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This ^

Btw, there are some people who still do this, I was watching a crime show last night and he had met this lady a year before, who btw was down on her luck, had been single off and on for ten years, pumped and dumped. So of course he played capt save a hoe' moved her in, took care of her, paid her bills, etc. Well how does she repay him?
By cheating behind his back with the first guy who came along(he was a fat and out of shape muther fuker too). So, instead of just leaving she had the nerve to throw this in his face as she was leaving. But of course she didnt get far. He cut her head off and dismenbered her body..
Whoa fella.... I'm not advocating murdering anyone. I'm just saying that back in the day you were allowed, and it was socially acceptable, to take your anger out in proportion to what had happened to you. Usually a shot to the face or a slap took care of that. But never ever risk a life sentence over women or anyone else for that matter. They ain't worth it!
 

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This ^

Btw, there are some people who still do this, I was watching a crime show last night and he had met this lady a year before, who btw was down on her luck, had been single off and on for ten years, pumped and dumped. So of course he played capt save a hoe' moved her in, took care of her, paid her bills, etc. Well how does she repay him?
By cheating behind his back with the first guy who came along(he was a fat and out of shape muther fuker too). So, instead of just leaving she had the nerve to throw this in his face as she was leaving. But of course she didnt get far. He cut her head off and dismenbered her body..
Why doesn't it surprise me that you are bringing a fake story on fake television to a forum to discuss men's real life issues?

One day you will wake up, son.
 

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Why doesn't it surprise me that you are bringing a fake story on fake television to a forum to discuss men's real life issues?

One day you will wake up, son.
How do you know his story is fake? There are plenty of true crime tv shows where people go fubar and kill their spouses. He's not promoting killing anyone he's just sharing a f*cked up story like OP was.

The sad part is their are countless men like OP described. A co-worker of mine is going through some similar sh*t. Unfortunately, these guys are beyond repair and will more than likely never change. Hopeless cases.
 

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A lot of women either use their maiden name or hyphenate so that their childhood friends can find them.

It's actually very common, but that wouldn't fly in my household.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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