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Friend is getting married

Martel

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My old college buddy is getting married next month to this chick he met in med school. They're having a mountain themed wedding at a ski resort lodge.
My other buddy rented a suite at the lodge that sleeps 5, has some open beds, and asked if I wanted go in with him and get one of the beds.
I was planning on renting my own room at the lodge, because I might be bringing a women up with me.

This is the first non-family wedding I've been to and raises a few questions:

Should I even consider bringing a women to a wedding in the first place?
I'm currently single, dating a few, and haven't told any of them about my friends wedding.

What are single women like at weddings anyways?
("Wedding Crashers is probably a stretch...) Being the cheap bastard that I am, splitting some of the hotel costs is appealing, but having the flexibility of my own room is also appealing.
 

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Martel said:
My old college buddy is getting married next month to this chick he met in med school. They're having a mountain themed wedding at a ski resort lodge.
My other buddy rented a suite at the lodge that sleeps 5, has some open beds, and asked if I wanted go in with him and get one of the beds.
I was planning on renting my own room at the lodge, because I might be bringing a women up with me.

This is the first non-family wedding I've been to and raises a few questions:

Should I even consider bringing a women to a wedding in the first place?
I'm currently single, dating a few, and haven't told any of them about my friends wedding.

What are single women like at weddings anyways?
("Wedding Crashers is probably a stretch...) Being the cheap bastard that I am, splitting some of the hotel costs is appealing, but having the flexibility of my own room is also appealing.
Ask the girl your most interested in or if you just want a woman by your side bring the one that you find most attractive. When it comes to weddings, women love and fantasize about their day. i would assume. So if you bring a date... dont be surprised if she turns and looks into your eyes later that day and says... so.. do you love me? lol nah JK
 

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Mate, I've been to about 50 weddings and been laid at just 2.
In Australia at least, there don't seem to be too many single chicks at these things.
And the ones who are single are flat out fitting through the door.
I also think that weddings have a lot of families and relatives there.
"Every girl wants to be slvt, they just don't want to be seen as a slvt." - Old jungle saying.
 

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Unless you want to take it to the next level with any of these chicks, I wouldn't take them. A lot of chicks interpret going to a wedding as a sign. They read a lot into it. Like in2thegame said, it's going to get her thinking and she might want to have "the talk."
 

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I don't really see the point of bringing any of your current b*tches. Say you're single and have the friend set you at a table with some single broads. Small chance of banging any of them, but at least there's a chance.

OR you can go online and see if there are any online dating chicks in the area the wedding will be. See if you can get a hookup with a local chick.
 

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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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