"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friend hitting on my GF

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Who cares what professional dating coaches say on the subject? AskMen has millions of viewers and Doc Love has been there for years. At least I have two sources for my info.

And man, is it that hard for you guys to get a girl to voluntarily touch you? If she likes you, she will touch you - normally extending her hand for a handshake immediately.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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crashdietguy said:
So what do you do when a friend hits on your girlfriend?
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I take this to mean your friend probably isn't getting any. You should hook him up with some girls. One of the benefits of having a girlfriend is that guys will most likely want her. Be proud of that and don't let it get to you.
 
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bigneil said:
Who cares what professional dating coaches say on the subject? AskMen has millions of viewers and Doc Love has been there for years. At least I have two sources for my info.

And man, is it that hard for you guys to get a girl to voluntarily touch you? If she likes you, she will touch you - normally extending her hand for a handshake immediately.
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u mad bro?

LOL. Just fucking with you man! :D

Look, Doc has some good stuff and some not so good stuff. Also, The View has millions of viewers and has been on the air for years but that don't make it Right or Good! ;)

I generally agree with letting the girl touch first (because that way I assess her IL, along with the rest of her IOIs) but most of the time, kino is important for letting her know that 1) you're interested in her romantically/sexually and are letting her know non-verbally, 2) you're confident in yourself and your sexuality and are not afraid of letting her know this and 3) that you're a man who is not afraid of leading her physically.

Eventually, if a woman digs, the right kino will get her naughty parts wet for getting down to business. ;)
 
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You got tons of advice in this thread on the EXACT same topic: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=179382

If it's the same girl - just remember who told you this would continue throughout your relationship! (because she likes putting men to compete for her. there's NO other reason. your friend is not an *******, she is creating this sh!t to fvck with your head!)

If it's a different girl - you're doing something really wrong with these women.

Either way - you've already been given advice and you don't listen.
 
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