disfunktional
Don Juan
Hey,
Interested to hear your views on this. A friend of mine, who I have known for a long time, started seeing my ex about a month or two after we split up. She pretty much latched on to him as she couldn't handle being on her own after we split up. We had been together for 7 years, so at the time I was still getting over it and it was the last thing I needed. It's been about 7 months since we split up now and I am well over it. I believe they are still seeing each other, but I think it has been on and off for a while i.e a couple of months ago she asked if I wanted to get back together, I of course said no.
My friend and I don't speak to each other anymore and it has caused a split in our circle of friends. It used to be that we would all arrange to do things together, but it has become somewhat seperated so that we dont cross paths anymore. It pisses me off that it has come to this as it has affected my social life but for a while I haven't really felt any bad feeling towards him. The guy is a total AFC, I think he lost his virginity at 25 and my ex is his first proper girlfriend. For this reason, I can see how he would be easily led into the relationship.
The question is, would you guys forgive him and keep in contact, knowing that he is an AFC who doesn't know any better? Or for you, would it be unforgiveable?
Interested to hear your views on this. A friend of mine, who I have known for a long time, started seeing my ex about a month or two after we split up. She pretty much latched on to him as she couldn't handle being on her own after we split up. We had been together for 7 years, so at the time I was still getting over it and it was the last thing I needed. It's been about 7 months since we split up now and I am well over it. I believe they are still seeing each other, but I think it has been on and off for a while i.e a couple of months ago she asked if I wanted to get back together, I of course said no.
My friend and I don't speak to each other anymore and it has caused a split in our circle of friends. It used to be that we would all arrange to do things together, but it has become somewhat seperated so that we dont cross paths anymore. It pisses me off that it has come to this as it has affected my social life but for a while I haven't really felt any bad feeling towards him. The guy is a total AFC, I think he lost his virginity at 25 and my ex is his first proper girlfriend. For this reason, I can see how he would be easily led into the relationship.
The question is, would you guys forgive him and keep in contact, knowing that he is an AFC who doesn't know any better? Or for you, would it be unforgiveable?