"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Friend blabs to possible hook-up...

asdfghjkl

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I went on a "date" with a girl and afterwords i told my friend he ****blocked me by following us home:box: The next day i told him about it and he laughed and started telling people.

Well someone who found out told the original girl that i could have hooked up with her. I havent talked to her since but i was going to call her to ask her out tonight. Should i say anything about what she heard? Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just ask her out. If she asks tell her that you'll fill her in on the date. If she brings it up on the date, just tell her that your friend is a dweeb and he thought that it would be funny to follow the two of you. Tell her that you think it was childish, and you are surprised that he would do such a thing. After that, just move on to a new subject.
 

Docs

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How to solve a loser "friend" that follows you.

Wing down the first cab you see. You and her get in and drive for 3 minutes. Total cost....$4? Friend...Gone. Girl, priceless :D
 
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