fridget chick

[Tripy]

ive been dating this chick for about 1 month now, her friends keep bugging her about sex when ever im with them and giving us **** that we havnt done it yet but shes a real fridget, never done anything with a guy, i was her first/only kiss

how would i go about trying to get her to go further? ive tried once, and when i did she said shes not ready, do i just wait it out?

she has a few friends that get ****ed over by guys fairly often and i think she doesnt want me to just use her for sex, what could it be

 

[runner83]

All you can do is start with making out and try to keep moving to the next step. And if she's still not willing to go all the way, then you have to decide whether she's worth waiting or to go elsewhere for it.

Also refer to Iron Rule of Tomassi # 3, which I've quoted below. Food for thought. Of course, if you are both young, this may not apply as much.


Iron Rule of Tomassi #3

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

When women make you wait for sex you are not their highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation. It's sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. A woman who wants to fukk you will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, ƒuck the sh!t out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work - women who want to ƒuck will find a way to ƒuck. The girl who tells you she wants a relationship first is the same girl who fukked the hot guy in the foam cannon party in Cancun on spring break half an hour after meeting him.

If a girl is that into you she'll ƒuck regardless of ASD or having her friends in the room videotaping it at a frat party. All women can be sluts, you just have to be the right guy to bring it out in them, and this happens before you go back to her place. If you have to plead your case cuddling and spooning on the bed or getting the occasional peck on the cheek, you need to go back to square one and start fresh.

 

[Sherlock-Holmes]

Hey Tripty,

What in the world makes you think that girls don't want sex as much as we do?

Be the prize, or act like one. Do not persue it any further, rather make it seem that you don't mind not having sex.

 

[Tripy]

i know they want it just as much, this chick has been the most challenging to get any action from, and its just plain annoying we are young. im 17, shes 15

i really like that iron rule of tomassi if theres more, would you be able to message them to me? cheers