"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Friday nights mission

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Friday night’s mission.

This is for clubber guys or guys going out on the town.

This is what the mission is.

Mission 1:
Dress well and I mean well, trendy pants, shirt and nice shoes.
But before you do this, get a shower, brush those teeth wear some nice deodorant.
Style that hair but dont over do it, what i mean is layers of gel and grease are not attractive.
Make yourself look good, alternative wear is nice T-Shirt, tight shirt if you have a good body.
I don’t recommend T-Shirts for skinny guys, go with a Shirt ideally or a nice thick T-Shirt, not too thick
Jumpers and tank tops e.t.c are out, geekie wear is out.
What I mean by geekie:
Shirts with anal patterns on, stuff like dragons, flowers, pictures of inane things, a nice one colour shirt is perfect, wear a white loose causal one if your darker complexion, a dark shirt, if your more more pink or white. Ok the shirt best one should fir perfectly to your figure.
Women love the V shape, you know shoulders broad (even skinny guys have em) shaped down like a cone to your feet.
If your fat don’t worry you can make up for it, in other ways, but get to the GYM FFS.

Mission 2 when you are dressed for success:
Go out, this is mission number 2 that’s all, get yourself out there:

Mission 3:
Attitude, fake it till you make it.
Try this mentality, tell yourself you’re the man in the club/bar number one and you don’t need female approval or attention you are above it!
Women don’t make your life you do, keep that frame. Be seen to be enjoying yourself, no one like a miserable git pouring over problems and focusing on negativity, focus on positives and have fun.

Mission 4:
The lone female, Bar toilet waiting for her mate, sat down:
This is what you must do: do not think about approaching her, you see her, you APPROACH, do not hesitate, this will only make you question yourself.
What do I say when I approach. Women are not stupid she knows what you are after, don’t try to hide your intentions, but don’t come across as a dirty perv either. Be smooth cool, calm relaxed as much has possible, we know your feeling nervous, but fake it till you make it, most girls will think it is cute your embarrassed slightly, some have ***** shields.

Don’t go out expecting to pull, do not think this is the night, instead think ‘I am going to have a GREAT night tonight’
‘Life is good and I am going to enjoy it’


Simple openers:
Bar: Hey I will make a bet with you I bet I can get served faster then you.
So what are you buying me then.
you see her buy some weird ****tail ‘Your actually going to drink that thing’
Or really cheeky ‘WoW’ look at her ‘it’s not every day you get to meet a guy as dam hot as me’ Smile.
Aint you that girl who chatted me up last week?


Sat alone: Why you sat alone, ‘wait for reply’, ‘ahhh so it’s not because your feet smell then’
Your sat here waiting for me right, give her a smile.
You look like a women that is waiting for a lot of attention, give her a smile.
You know you look very familiar, have we met (old but still works).
Caught you giving me the eye, you look like you could use my company.

Dance floor: See a girl wait for a few buying signals, eye contact holding, moving towards you, smile she smiles back.
After buying signals, move over to her get closer and start to dance with each other.
Immitate, old school rock music if you want, you know dirty dancing the film stuff.
Grind with here if she gets closer.
Have fun.


Outside in queues and sets: or moving to bar:
Hey where is a good place to go to meet attractive women here in xxxxxxxxx.
In the queue ‘so tell me what’s this place like, I have never been here before’



Have fun these are your missions tonight.

You are not out to pull just have fun, things progress from there.

sub mission:
Eye contact, I want you to hold eye contact with any girl you can and hold it till they look away. Simple but very important.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It all sounds good. Except for the smelly feet part... I thought in DJ seduction you don't want to use anything negative that could be considered gross too.

I'll be going out an applying these principles on Saturday! Thanks for the tip.
 

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wunnaBsmooth said:
It all sounds good. Except for the smelly feet part... I thought in DJ seduction you don't want to use anything negative that could be considered gross too.

I'll be going out an applying these principles on Saturday! Thanks for the tip.
I see well your not trying to be offence just playfull.

For example if i used that i would smile!
Ideally she would say something back like 'hey i dont have smelly feet'.
With that you can go a few ways:
'ahh is that right, well i would ask you to test that but i am not feeling very brave tonight'
'Really so where are you mates then?'
'Good i like a girl who knows how to take care of herself, move up' sit next to her.

What I am saying it dont really matter what you say to lone girls they are more receptive.

There is a quote and this has been proven in the field and talking to many girls.
A girl will make her mind up in 3sec if she likes you or not from a cold none canned approach, i know some dont agree, but unless your coming in with no intention of opening them i.e canned openers in sets, then the other method is the 3sec rule. The positive thing about it is if she does like you she will interact with you and not make it 90/10 like seduction guru's make you think it is. There are many ways to get laid many, there is no defining way, some are more successful then others.

When you are starting out my way that has always worked is opening numbers.

You can work on the advanced stuff later i know i am :D

This is how i work and it works so far.
Have fun, enjoy and dont be afraid of talking to nasty girls :D

My lines are examples only, thing i live by is the rule if you like her just get your as* over there.

PPl memorize canned stuff, which is great, but in noisy bars/clubs/ loud busy environments. Just going over and putting your as* on the line is usually more then enough.

Going to add more.

There are a few rules of thumb.
One is:
Sleazy, try to reframe from sleazy rubbish, this means body language as well as verbal.
Insecure, almost as bad as sleazy but some girls may still go for you.
Try hard, trying too hard seem desperate for sex, remember you dont need sex, you are seeing if sex would be good with her if she make the right moves too.
Clingy: not getting the hint when she is not intrested.

If a girl is not intrested JUST MOVE on, dont analize it just move on forget about it and open another girl.

Key frames.
cool, you not fazed by her lack of attraction, you know you dont need sex, your there for the experiance.
Smooth, again you dont need her approval to know your the man, your just you having fun, smooth not try hard.
Seperated from the outcome: your not try hard or desperate for the outcome of sex, keep the frame of qualifying her, she maybe a freak after all dont fall into the trap of pandering for puzzy.
 
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Not sure if your a KBJ but good advice.

/Signed

Will read again before tonight and tomorrow night and get in the mood. Still doesnt feel like the weekend to me :crazy:


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Tomatoes said:
Not sure if your a KBJ but good advice.

/Signed

Will read again before tonight and tomorrow night and get in the mood. Still doesnt feel like the weekend to me :crazy:


Sarge On!
KBJ mmmm ok let me put a few experience up here tomatoes :D.

Three weeks ago, mission 1 frame.
Dressed in a nice tight black shirt, blue jeans nice shoes and going from bar to bar, having fun, being cool and not really giving a monkeys what women or any thought tbh, I was in the frame.
A HB9 blonde dragged me on the dance floor, I have seen her 4 times had sex with her once and she is coming over to see me again tonight. this is truth not fiction.

Last weekend.
Two girls chatting, I went to the loos in the pub, sprayed on some Jaun paul, and put on some boss on my wrist.
Went back upstairs, went straight over to them with a big smile, opened them with ‘which do you think is better?’
Had both of them smelling my neck, no BS they where both trying to get my details, I gave my number to the best one, she is coming over next weekend to see me.

3-4 girls I open up per night when I am in the mood, but I don’t go out all the time for sex.
3-4 girls having chats conversation, just enjoying it.

I aint no KBJ< I have had tons of experience and the one true rule, confident, look good, feel great, don’t take life to seriously and put your balls on the line. Works.

I have pulled women from being drunk, where is the chat up gumph there? It was pure 3sec rule.
I have pulled girls on the dance floor, kissing them after 5seconds, no words.
I have had girls approach me also!

Was it always this way, no it was not.

The things I say above are very simple but it works.

There is no harm in trying :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yet i still have you qualifing yourself to me. Still things to learn then :D


Nah i will add you to my list of "People to listen to in terms of opinion" on here.


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Tomatoes said:
Yet i still have you qualifing yourself to me. Still things to learn then :D


Nah i will add you to my list of "People to listen to in terms of opinion" on here.


Sarge On!
lol :D

np man, yeh i was qualifying myself to you, hey and why not :D

Have fun with it!

Cant wait for saturday night tbh!
 
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