"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Friday Night Thread

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Whats up guys... its Friday night, December 14th 07... Heading out to meet with my wing, and then eventually we will be hitting up the night life tonight.

For anyone else going out tonight to play the field, put your field report here tomorrow if you don't mind.... Would be cool to see a huge field report of all the experiences on Dec 14th

I don't care if your night was lame or if you pussed out, or if you banged three girls. IF you went out, post up what happened here....


Have fun tonight! cya here tomorrow.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Randallpink83

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ahhh, just got home... its 11am... fvck december 14th lol.

Well me and my friend went out and hit up two bars and two clubs last night. Nothing to great happened though, I hit up a few sets at the first bar, I got one girl hooked but after like 5 minutes I pushed and escalated too hard for a make-out and basically blew myself out.
Then went to a small club, hmmm... we started drinking (the downfall of the night) Didn't hit up too many girls there, nothing much to note. Left and then we went to the main club that we wanted to goto for the night... Get this guys, this was totally fvcked up, We weren't there for not even 5 minutes and we got kicked out because of me... Very first thing We walked up to the bar and there are two girls dancing right by the bar and all their boyfriends or guys whatever circling around them watching, so I bust right through the guys and start talking to the girls "Whoaaa whoaa you can't do that, the dancefloor is over there, You girls are just being WAY TO HOT right here for me"... apparently this girl DID NOT like that, she got in my face and was being a real b!tch so I'm just like whatever "Are you serious you cant talk to me that way" stand my ground but then just let her be and walk up to the bar... That was the interaction, me just being playful and her being a b!tch... nothing new right. Even one of the guys was real cool, he smiled at me and shrugged his shoulders like 'hey lose some win some' we even chatted a bit. Meanwhile apparently the girl went and got a bouncer or maybe the bouncers just saw her get in my face and they grabbed me and told me i had to leave, they said I pushed a girl, or a guy, they didnt even know... I'm like "dude, I'm straight, I come here all the time I'm not gonna push a fvckin girl man... I'm sorry for any misunderstanding but we are fine we are just gonna go to the other side of the club okay?"... hes like sorry you gotta go.
Weird... I seriously never been kicked out of a club before.

So we go over to a bar thats right next to it... right when we walk in these two girls grab me, I had cold approached them a while back and they remembered me, I had made out with the one girl and talked on the phone a bit with her. Anyhow it was just them two together alone, so we start drinking with them ( a lot) and then we pull them out of that bar and take them back to the first smaller club hang out there for a bit and then we talk them into taking us back to her apartment since it was nearby because we wanted to "watch a movie" hehe.... We are pulling them towards the parking lot just being playfully aggressive... "come on come on lets go".. some make outs on the way, it was on.
We follow them back to their apartment, check out her place for a bit and then they put on a movie but then my friend asks to use the bathroom and then goes in there and pukes his ass off... guess he was really drunk. I'm like, sh!t.. there goes are night. So I go in there to get him and hes like take me home... While he was in the bathroom though I was making out with the girl and feeling her up under the blanket, it was so on.
so we leave and seriously right as we walk out she is saying something about calling her and then it hits me.... I'm really drunk and I'm gonna puke right then.... Its so weird, I can't remember the last time I puked from alcohol. Like seriously I don't ever drink that much. I don't really feel like I drank that much last night either. And I don't think I could tell I was drunk because I was gaming those girls and just playing it cool... but man, The rest of the night is a blur.... Somehow my friend got straight after puking and got us home (drunken driving not good)... But I was gone, I woke up earlier this morning on his bathroom floor. So weird.

First that girl was a real jackass getting me thrown out. Way uncalled for.

And second, the whole puking thing, Not attractive to those girls, I probably ruined my chances. (yeah they came outside and watched some.. lol)

ohhh well. Gonna go out again tonight and take another crack at it. This time no more drinky.... Not sure I would have done anything different with getting thrown out of that club though.. i guess that crap just happens sometimes.
 

Randallpink83

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Thanks Noob. Yeah I have noticed the bouncers power trips at that club in the past... it seems to be worse then others, but its still a good club.
Yeah I could have got laid last night, but I'm more let down that I didn't do more approaches last night haha.


...No one else went out last night??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I went out with my best bud to a mall and to best buy. The mall was packed and the women were more uptight there than the other mall (too bad). My friend got swindled by some hot russian sales girl...happens. Nothing happened last night but I did get out of the house, but I've got road trips to FL and a ski resort at WV coming up.
 
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