"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
uh at school I don't really hang out with anyone, just some smokers. Maybe a jock or two occasionally.

In my free time I really dont do much, just listen to music and stupid stuff. I like sports, and I would probably do anything like go to the mall, movie theater, out for walks in the park... idk, but I'm willing to do whatever, anything at all.

help me escape my wierdness!!

Dude ever heard the saying " A man is known by the company he keeps" ?
If you hang out with the most popular guys , you'll be considered coo. you must make an effort you know. If they're really cool , they wont mind it too. And if they make fun of you , well just call them on it like " You know you sound really cool when you say that" Basically be unaffected. Refer to post arrogant friends in High School Forum for details

Build your life. What all sports do you play daily , or say on a regular basis.??
A final word. Dont go after chicks . Build your life . For example , the best basketball player in school . Do you thnk chicks dig him cuz he was after girls??? No they dig him cuz he has put an effort to be the best and it shows. Similarly do something . Be known , take part in extra curricular activites etc . Chicks will enter your life automatically.

Till then keep changing , keep improving. Enjoy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have to agree with nicenomore.

Follow your passions in life. If you like sports go out and try to be the best in what ever sport you play. The more you concentrate on things besides girls the easier it is to talk to them and be with them.
 

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The more you concentrate on things besides girls the easier it is to talk to them and be with them.
Totally true. Plus you get new topics to talk about and relate to.

They may even tell you about their cousin bro or someone who is turning pro , and you may even get to learn from him and be better still. (not to forget attract hotter chicks too lol)
 

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Ok, I'm sorry but you seriously need help.

PM me for Double Your Dating and a whole lot of other materials.

You are going to need them.
 

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I don't think I'm capable of being the best at anything physical because my body is too small/weak. I'll work out to start off.
The one thing I actually am good at is P-Funk knowledge, which probably won't help in many places... but Idk, maybe it could.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah start working out, and also start playing some sport that you like. Doesn't matter if you suck, as long as you improve. What the hell is P-Funk?
 

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Well I am playing rec b-ball, but I suck and I'm trying my best.
P-Funk:
the legacy of George Clinton and Parliament Funkadelic starting from 1955 as a doo wop group in the back of his barber shop, and evolving into a massive group of funk, still alive, playing, and popular now 52 years later in 2007.

here are 3 songs to check out:
Flashlight by Parliament
One Nation Under A Groove by Funkadelic
Atomic Dog by George Clinton

all of these songs reached the #1 r&b position, and every album they released (well over 50 including other members) contain one or more hits..
they released one of the best rock albums ever "Maggot Brain" and created the new style of r&b used today by slowing down the beats on the album "Mothership Connection"...

I could write for hours but this is going way off topic.
-Do you guys have any suggestions of things for me to get into? I really would do anything.
-Is there a place where I can learn what to do when I work out by myself, or should I go to a gym, or even both?

oh yeah I forgot to mention, George Clinton is one of the oldest rappers alive, at 67 years old.
 

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The Shocker said:
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You: Hey, I gotta go, but I'd really love to see you again. Outside of this hellhole I mean...(smile, and pulling out cell phone (NOT PENIS!)) you should give me your number and we can hang out sometime.
hot biznatch: Oh yeah that sounds great, it's ***-****
P.S. Don't overthink it.
Are you kidding me? Whipping out the penis before asking for a hot chick's number is the most balla shi- eva. LMAO
 

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Are you kidding me? Whipping out the penis before asking for a hot chick's number is the most balla shi- eva. LMAO
Yeah...balla as in you'll be playing with your ballz, not her puzzy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, I know..Just dishing it back at ya. Now stop eating my furniture!

And yes, the shocker...:rockon:
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
-Do you guys have any suggestions of things for me to get into? I really would do anything.
-Is there a place where I can learn what to do when I work out by myself, or should I go to a gym, or even both?
Well get into things you like. AS plec07 said
"Start rapping, your obviously passionate about it so get good at it!"

When you work out, concentrate on working out. Otherwise go out. You learn more on a single day of approaching outside than you could ever sitting on these forums.
 

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yeah I completely fu*cked up when I talked to her.

Me: are you hanging out with amy this weekend?
Her: uh amy? no
Me: can I have your number?
Her: ok
Me: do you need a pen or something?
Her: no I'll just give it to you online
Me: ok cya
I raced off and I think she said bye behind me but I dont remember so she probably didn't.

That’s a mistake I make very commonly.....Engaging a woman’s logical mind, or as it’s known as: the interview pickup.
You were basically interviewing her. I am guilty of it too, so don’t worry, we’re in the same boat. ;)

My suggestion is to create an emotional conversation instead of a logical one...
Kind of like “How would you feel if you were blah blah” Basically , less logic......

Women are emotional creatures. We are the logical ones.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need some ideas to focus on, like as to try something new and get into it.
I could never be successful at rapping lol..

as for this girl whom I asked for her #, I won't bring up the subject unless she comes to me about it.
 

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WOw Omg.. thats really hitting the problem.
what is emotional?
like I saw her grades and there were like 3 Cs there..
could I have asked her if she was happy with her grades? damn...
also like why do you think you didn't get As?

er Idk if thats emotional, but I'd be horrible thinking of that on the spot..
I'm more visual then emotional or something..
 

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First off # close. Simple : Simple as saying : hey i gotta go , why dont you give me your no or find any other excuse for it , as long as its not lame.
Remember , if she declines , dont be pushy, act as if nothing happened. No problem .

However if you do approach as i told you by DHV and qualifying her , number close should really be no problem at all....
 

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WOw Omg.. thats really hitting the problem.
what is emotional?
like I saw her grades and there were like 3 Cs there..
could I have asked her if she was happy with her grades? damn...
also like why do you think you didn't get As?

er Idk if thats emotional, but I'd be horrible thinking of that on the spot..
I'm more visual then emotional or something..
Dont start off with something negative.

Relate for eg:

GMA : Nice necklace , where did you get it from?

Her : Blah Blah Blah (ie the place)
:(in case she asks) Why you asking me this??( Reply: I've seen a lot of girls wear it , was curious)

GMA : Saw any handsome guys there?

Her : Yes : Cant be as handsome as me though ;)
No : Are you serious??? You saw no guy as handsome as me...

GMA : What would it be like to go shopping in a mall full of hot/handsome guys ????

Her: Blah , Blah , blah
I'd love to go in a mall full of hot girls damn.....


Be playful, be fun. Not just with her , but everyone you meet (guys and girls) . You will soon learn to get it.

Most importantly , dont let negative replies affet you, just go on.....

It takes practice, i 'm learning too Ok....
 

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Ahh... I don't have the slightest idea, how is that emotional?
I'm talking about myself being hot and showing an interest in hot girls... should I do that alot? like talk about semi sexual things?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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