"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Freudian slip and recovery !

Don of Truth

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Oh man, I was in a conversation tonight with a HB7 from class and we were talking about something. She had given me a tip how to do something better. I can't remember what it was exactly....BUT...
I wanted to thank her for her "tip" so I said...
Thanks for the "tit".
LOL...I immediately realized what I said! So I just acted shocked (I put my hand over my mouth...opened my eyes really wide) and said "you know what that was right ?..it was a freudian slip"...and then immediately continued with the conversation.

I didn't appoligize for it. That's something I used to do alot of when I was a chump...always appoligizing for my sexuality.

Anyway...I thought it was great how it happened. You know...she DOES have nice titties and I WAS thinking about them. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kineti[C]harm

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"Now there I go thinking about your tits again!"
then
"You are a bad bad girl for doing this to me, you're bad for me!"
or something.
 

Cremasta

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Hmmm... a HB7 with nice tits and a cool attitude!

Woulda jacked my IL in her up a few notches...
 

Don of Truth

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
"Now there I go thinking about your tits again!"
then
"You are a bad bad girl for doing this to me, you're bad for me!"
or something.
Nice ! I'll look for something more "suggestive" to flow from my lips next time.

She has been in a LTR with a b/f for a couple years.
I'm easing my way in there since it looks like she is very comfortable in the LTR she is in.

I am open to a friendship if it does happen since she can then introduce me to her single friends ! hehe
 
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