"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freshman Girl

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So I have my eyes on this one freshman girl. I am a Junior. I have never talked to her. She is really shy. I have a FEELING that she likes me. Sometimes she looks at me. Probably because she is shy. But she has a butt like KABAM! (Something you would want to go home and masterbate to.) You know what I'm talking about you dirty devil you! :crackup:

She usually hangs around with a bunch of other freshmen girls. She is a shy freshman girl. How do I get her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EASY!!! Just approach her with a lien LIKE "Hey whats up. U a freshman?"
And then just act cool, then take her somewhere. Dont get ur hopes high, shes just a simple freshman girl that might be jelious, just jelious of u couse ur junior!Hmmm And u jelious of her butt that u wish u had! :D
 

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"Hey what's up?"

uhhhhhhhh.....nothing much



"U a Freshman?"

Yeah...




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Hey, thanks shyguy, that'll work REAL well :rolleyes:
 

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Don't get your hopes up bc shy girls are just so strange. Don't hesitate on talking to her tho bc it will bite you in the arse if you don't.
 

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Don't say "what's up" when you don't know the person. Go up to her and be like "Heyy, i'm guessing you're a frehman. How do you like the teachers so far?"

If she's interested, she'll make a conversation out of it. If she says something like "Uhh they're ok I guess." than sorry bud, she's not interested in you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dirtyvibe

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just because she responds in 1 sentence doesnt mean shes not interested... thats what building attraction is all about
 

TheNewGuy

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dirtyvibe said:
just because she responds in 1 sentence doesnt mean shes not interested... thats what building attraction is all about
I might've worded it wrong. He was saying that she was already interested in him, so if she had a one sentence response than odds are she wasn't already.
 

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well when she is in her group of friends, tell her is it cool if I talk with you for a minute.

then ask her some questions then get number.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jackie_legs said:
well when she is in her group of friends, tell her is it cool if I talk with you for a minute.

then ask her some questions then get number.

HA....well now we all know who the wannabe Don Juan Pick Up Artist is.



Well here is an update.

I was walking down the hall and out of no-where she pops out of one of the classrooms.... Then she is walking in-front of me. She opens the doors, but she is too shy to turn around and look at me when she does. SO she just holds the door for me while looking forward (so as to not see me).

I decided not to say thank-you. So, it was just silent.


BUT, when she did walk in front of me......WHOOAAAAAA you shoulda seen the view!!!!!!!!!!!! Very Nice :up:
 

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I've used this one a few times before successfully. It'll work on more than just freshman girls, too, so long as 1.) the girl has made eye contact with you at least twice, and 2.) SHE BROKE THE EYE CONTACT, NOT YOU.

"I noticed you've been looking over at me like you want to talk to me for some time now, but you haven't said anything yet. Are you always this shy?"

It works 'cause it demonstrates your confidence, it lowers her social value a little, and it leaves you with a great way to introduce yourself and to learn her name. From there, just get a conversation going, and you're set :up:.
 

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Sean O said:
I've used this one a few times before successfully. It'll work on more than just freshman girls, too, so long as 1.) the girl has made eye contact with you at least twice, and 2.) SHE BROKE THE EYE CONTACT, NOT YOU.

"I noticed you've been looking over at me like you want to talk to me for some time now, but you haven't said anything yet. Are you always this shy?"

It works 'cause it demonstrates your confidence, it lowers her social value a little, and it leaves you with a great way to introduce yourself and to learn her name. From there, just get a conversation going, and you're set :up:.

Very Nice! I like it...:up:
 

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man just make sure her parents arent gay. i had to just end my relationship with this freshman girl because her parents wouldnt let me take her out at all. and if we were ever out they would call me and make me bring her home in 1 hour. s**t sucked
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dude. this isn't that hard. Juniors and Seniors should not have any problem pickin up freshmen. They are easy. But they aren't usually mature enough for any relations.
 

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she should be glad a junior is checking her out a freshman ...but if you just trying to get in her pants it might be hard cuz shes a freshman still kinda young
 

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Kintuz said:
Very Nice! I like it...:up:
i like it too.....just gotta make sure 100% that she IS looking at YOU and notices you or else you might come off all stuck up thinking shes looking at you when she wasent
 

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You remind me of me a few years ago. I used to take the slightes signs of attention as major signs of attraction. You think she likes you becasue she looks at you? Unless she usually walks around with her eyes closed that doesnt mean anything. Its funny that someone who can make such an AFC thread is giving out advice how to be an alpha male. You do not have to spproach her differently becasue she's shy!!!!!!
 

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You guys all go into rapport building way too fast. Fluff talk does not create attraction. You may feel you are successful in your reproach because she reciprocates conversation, but is this really attraction? I like eye contact opener, that one is solid. Lowering her social value in a neg while still remaining friendly is an awesome way to open. Also, try to kino her in that first approach even if it may just be shaking her hand. When you shake a girls hand, it's quite different. You want to hold you hand out so she can hers on top of yours, lower your hand slowly and end with a little squeeze at the end before you release. Also, remember, do not watch your hand while doing this and do not stand completely parallel to her in the farewell with a handshake. One shoulder should be slightly pulled back to make it less confrontational and raise your social value with the implication that you have better things to do than talk to her. Good luck on future approaches.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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