"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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fresh out of military

glass half full

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Went out for lunch today alone. I had just interviewed for a job.
New waitress in there, fresh out of military. Very friendly, 6.5 or 7 at least, but has qualities I really like.
She kept wanting me to try a dessert, said no way I'm full...but I have to be back tomorrow for another interview. So she told me to ask for her by name tomorrow so I can be in her section, I had to try this dish.
She's half my age I'm guessing, nice and not shy at all.
anyone have experience with ex military chicks these days?
Just wondering how things have been for her, what it is like for them, etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was in the military for 5 years. Being in an environment that is 80% male to 20% female severely warps a lot of women's minds. The constant attention, getting around, white knighting etc.

Very quickly once I got in I decided never to date any of the women I met in the military.

You can bang em sure but if you intend for it go further than that you need to screen her extensively and test the **** out of her to make sure you aren't wasting your time.
 

The Duke

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I have only known 3 ex military chics. They all lacked feminine qualities. Seemed to be quite lost and didn't know where they fit in.
 
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