"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Went out for lunch today alone. I had just interviewed for a job.
New waitress in there, fresh out of military. Very friendly, 6.5 or 7 at least, but has qualities I really like.
She kept wanting me to try a dessert, said no way I'm full...but I have to be back tomorrow for another interview. So she told me to ask for her by name tomorrow so I can be in her section, I had to try this dish.
She's half my age I'm guessing, nice and not shy at all.
anyone have experience with ex military chicks these days?
Just wondering how things have been for her, what it is like for them, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was in the military for 5 years. Being in an environment that is 80% male to 20% female severely warps a lot of women's minds. The constant attention, getting around, white knighting etc.

Very quickly once I got in I decided never to date any of the women I met in the military.

You can bang em sure but if you intend for it go further than that you need to screen her extensively and test the **** out of her to make sure you aren't wasting your time.
 
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I have only known 3 ex military chics. They all lacked feminine qualities. Seemed to be quite lost and didn't know where they fit in.
 
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