"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DogFashionDisco

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Ok, so I've finally moved on after realizing that my emo girlfriend is pretty ****ed up, and somehow by listening to several The Killers songs... music always seems to change your mood. But yeah, I'm over her.

But anyways, I think I've found my next target, other than some other girls that I've been eyeing, there's this one I'm wanting to approach. From what I know, she's a grade below me, and I think has the same PE period as me, but is in a different class. I've also seen her before outside of my film class. She's in the room right next to it, in art, but I've only seen her maybe three times during the period. There's been two times however, that I've seen her while I was filming something, including filming her. It was this thing we had to do where we ask a bunch of random kids questions, so we filmed asking her and her friend a few questions, and she was smiling at me a bit. As well as another time, where she watched us film. But other than that I've never seen her, and I've never actually talked to her personally. I found her myspace, after some searching, but she doesn't have her picture on it, I just found her friend's one, and found out her name and all that jazz. I guess I'm wondering if I should message her or wait till monday and try to approach her if I can, which I'm not exactly sure. Our lunches are seperate, so I'll never see her outside of class, and in the hallways isn't an option, since she's busy with her friends and vice versa. :rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VegasGuy56

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dude, don't message her on myspace. It's not an attractive thing when a random person you don't even know starts e-mailing you. Make sure she knows you exist before you do something like that.

Strike up a conversation in person, get her number, and then if you want to send her an e-mail or whatever, do it. Never start by talking to her online if you can help it.
 

dannowillbookem

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online is underrated really, but it isnt nearly as good as talking to her in real life. its easy, something i like to do with random stranger girls at school. if youre walking down the hall time it so you fall into step with her and looking straight ahead say "hi." and turn and make eye contact and smile.

i know great pickup line works all the time.

then talk about yadda yadda seen you around yadda yadda something about that video thing yadda yadda what are you doing friday night yadda yadda give me your number and maybe i'll call yadda yadda gotta get to class goodbye


its not that hard man
 

DogFashionDisco

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Yeah you're right. So I'll have to do it monday. But I want to book this chick for spring break, which is starting friday for me. So I'm gonna need some hella skillz to get her in 4 days. I guess I'll be studying the bible for a few hours today to get my groove on for tomorrow.

Oh and is approaching her from behind a good move. I mean say we're both walking the same way and she's in front of me, is it ok than doing it head on?
 
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