"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Frequent Masturbation & Testosterone

Phantasmal

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In numerous posts throughout the forum, I see people posting things like "Don't masturbate often, it will raise your testosterone." and etc. Not masturbating often definitely increases your sex drive and makes you go nuts, but i've never read anything outside this site about the testosterone actually increasing. Where did this come from?

I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just curious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Theres a release of testosterone right after you jack off, I think.

Either way, I dont think I'll be stopping for long peroids unless I naturally dont do it. If I need to, I'll do it - but not just cause I'm bored or whatever.

I think people worry too much about T levels and not enough on living/eating right and working out properly.
 

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the "sex drive" is in your head, your testo levels will only rise SLIGHTY if you dont wack your wang, and go down SLIGHTY if you do wack your wang.

Like ben said, instead of not mastrubating, focus on your diet and training to raise your testo. ( though the "sex drive" thing is pretty good if I so so myself )
 

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Yeah - if I feel like I'm wasting my days, I stop jacking off and within 4 days I'm a hell of a lot more productive.

40 days and 40 nights is amazingly realistic o_O
 

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Agreed :D, but if you keep your wang tucked in long enough and dont wack it, it should become natural.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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for some weird reason I get horny when I see a woman's neck...

erm nevermind. :eek:
 

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On a sidenote if you jerk off too much once you hit some putang you won't cvm as easy because you'll be used to your hands faster rate. I good reason enough to stop wacking so much.
 

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yeah... neck and back can stir it up a bit. No idea why though.

I find the lower back the best though, but I think that has something to do with the fact that it leads onto the ass :D
 

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Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
On a sidenote if you jerk off too much once you hit some putang you won't cvm as easy because you'll be used to your hands faster rate. I good reason enough to stop wacking so much.
Wouldn't that be a good reason to wack more? Isn't one of a man's objectives in the sack is to last longer?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You gotta do some 'maintenance' wacks.

I noticed that after 1 month of 'hands of the sausage' my sex drive dropped to pretty low. (my body got used to it?)

After giving it a quick toss everything was back to normal ;)
 
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