"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FrenchConnec: 8 week Challenge

TheFrenchConnec

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I just desinged a workout program based on T-muscle's fat loss program

Here is my Challenge for 8 weeks at first; if I make it through, I will extend a couple weeks.

My goals are:
1. Reduce body fat from ±20% to as close as possible to 10%
2. Keep Lean mass steady, and maybe increase if possible/replace fat by
muscle

Day 1:

AM: Heavy Lifting Back/Chest

→ Superset 1:
-Bench press
4-6 reps
-DB flies
6-8 reps
2 minute rest
→ Superset 2:
-Chest supported rows 4-6 reps
-DB rows
6-8 reps
2 minute rest

Start over 5-6 times

PM: Alactic workout

→ Squash


Day 2:

Lactate inducing workout

→ Circuit A:
-DB bench
15 reps
-DB squat
15reps
-Machine Rows
15 reps
-Single leg DB
RDL 15 reps
-Stab ball
crunches 20 reps

Complete 3 times

→ Circuit B:
-Arnold press
20 reps
-Leg Extensions
20 reps
-Pull downs
20 reps
-Leg curls
20 reps
-Stab ball
crunches 20 reps

Complete 3 times

20-30 minutes Bike


Day 3 :
→ Off


Day 4:

AM: Heavy Lifting Quads/Hams

→ Superset 1:
-Squats
4-6 reps
-Leg press
6-8 reps
2 minute rest
→ Superset 2:
-Romanian Deadlifts 4-6 reps
-Seated leg curl 6-8 reps
2 minute rest

Start over 5-6 times

PM: Alactic workout

→ Squash



Day 5:
→ Off


Day 6:

Lactate inducing workout

→ Circuit A:
-DB bench
15 reps
-DB squat
15reps
-Machine Rows 15 reps
-Single leg DB RDL 15 reps
-Stab ball crunches 20 reps

Complete 3 times

→ Circuit B:
-Arnold press
20 reps
-Leg Extensions 20 reps
-Pull downs
20 reps
-Leg curls
20 reps
-Stab ball crunches 20 reps


Complete 3 times

20-30 minutes Bike


Day 7:
→ Off


This is my diet:

Days 1, 2, 4, 6:
-Meal 1: 2 kiwis, 1.5 scoop protein w/ water
-Meal 2: 3 cooked eggs, 1 small orange
-Meal 3: 4oz. Chicken w/ salad (lettuce, green onions, garlic) with balsamic vinegar and olive oil
-Meal 4: 20g Dark chocolate (70% or higher) 1 cup green tea
-Meal 5: Post work-out shake 1.5 scoop protein, water
-Meal 6: 1 4oz. Chicken Breast, 1/2 cup marinara, 1 tblspn parmesan, 2oz. whole wheat pasta

Days 3, 5, 7:
-Meal 1: 2 kiwis, 1 cup green tea
-Meal 2: 1/4 cup hummus with Whole wheat crackers
-Meal 3: 1 can tuna, 2 slices cheddar, 3 slices whole wheat bread
-Meal 4: 1 apple sliced, with 2 tblspn Peanut butter 1 cup green tea
-Meal 5: 4oz. fish, Broccoli, 2 oz. Brown rice
-Meal 6: 1.5 scoop protein w/ water


I still have to add Ab workout to my heavy lifting days
Will post pictures Pre-challenge and Post-challenge

If anyone has questions, tips, suggestions, comments, Feel free

-Fc
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheFrenchConnec

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Week 1
Day 1:
Bench press 105x6
DB flies 30x8
Chest supported rows 25x6
DB rows 30x8

2 minute rest, Started over 5 times
About 10 seconds in between each exercise, to allow for machine/position change

Will be playing squash later tonight

-Fc
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 1
Day 2:

Circuit 1:
-DB bench 15x25 lbs
-DB squats 15x25 lbs
-Machine rows 15x 75 lbs
-Single leg DB RDL 15x25 lbs
-Stab ball crunches 15

3 times

2 minute rest

Circuit 2:
-Arnold press 15x25
-Leg extensions 15x75
-Pull downs 15x90
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches 15

3 times

2 minute rest

20 minutes bike
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 1
Day 4:

Squats 6x155
Leg press 8x180
Stiff legged Deadlifts 6x155
Leg curl 8x60

Repeat superset 5 times

Hanging knee raises 2x8
Decline board leg thrust 1x10
Lying leg thrust 1x12
Stability ball hip flexions 1x15
Ab bicylces 1x30
Stability ball crunches 1x10
 

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I skipped week 1 Day 6

Week 2
Day 1

Bench press 6x105
DB flies 8x30
Chest supported rows 6x25
DB rows 8x30

Repeat superset 5 times

Hanging knee raises 2x8
Decline board leg thrust 1x10
Lying leg thrust 1x12
Stability ball hip flexion 1x15
Ab bicycles 1x30
Stab ball crunches 1x10
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Week 2
Day 2

Circuit 1
-DB bench 15x25
-DB squats 15x25
-Machine rows 15x75
-Single leg DB RDL 10x25 (each leg)
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2
-Arnold Press 15x25
-Leg extensions 15x75
-Pull downs 15x90
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Bike 20 minutes
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 2
Day 4

Front squats 6x135
Leg press 8x230
Stiff legged deadlifts 6x155
Leg curl 8x70

Repeat superset 5 times

Hanging knee raises 2x8
Decline board leg thrust 1x10
Lying leg thrust 1x12
Stability ball hip flexion 1x15
AB bicycle 1x30
Stab ball crunches 1x10
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 2
Day 6

Circuit 1
-DB bench 15x25
-DB squats 15x25
-Machine rows 15x75
-Single leg DB RDL 10x25 (each leg)
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2
-Arnold press 15x25
-Leg extensions 15x75
-Pull down 15x90
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Didn't have time to do my 20 minute cardio since the gym was closing early on weekends
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 2
Day 6

Circuit 1
-DB bench 15x25
-DB squats 15x25
-Machine rows 15x75
-Single leg DB RDL 10x25 (each leg)
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2
-Arnold press 15x25
-Leg extensions 15x75
-Pull down 15x90
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Didn't have time to do my 20 minute cardio since the gym was closing early on weekends
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 3
Day 1

Flat bench 6x110
DB flies 8x32.5
Chest supported rows 6x27.5
DB rows 8x32.5

Repeat superset 5 times

Hanging knee raises 2x8
Decline board leg thrust 1x10
Lying leg thrust 1x12
Stab ball hip flexion 1x15
Ab bicycles 1x30
Stab ball crunches 1x10
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Week 3
Day 2

Circuit 1
-Db bench 15x27.5
-DB squats 15x27.5
-Machine rows 15x80
-Single leg DB RDL 15x27.5
-Stab ball crunches

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2
-Arnold press 15x27.5
-Leg extensions 15x80
-Pull downs 15x95
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches

Repeat 3 times

20 minute bike
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 3
Day 4

-Front squats 6x135 lbs
-Leg press 8x275 lbs
-Stiff legged deadlifts 6x155 lbs
-Leg curl 8x70 lbs

Repeat superset 5 times

-Hanging knee raises 2x8
-Decline board leg thrust 1x10
-Lying leg thrust 1x12
-Stability ball hip flexion 1x15
-Ab bicylces 1x30
-Stab ball crunches 1x10
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 3
Day 6

Circuit 1
-DB bench 15x27.5
-DB squats 15x27.5
-Machine rows 15x80
-Single leg DB RDL 10x27.5 (each leg)
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2
-Arnold press 15x27.5
-Leg extensions 15x80
-Pull down 15x95
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches 15

Repeat 3 times

Didn't have time to do my 20 minute cardio
 

TheFrenchConnec

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I Haven't checked my BF out yet, I was planning on doing it after week 4
Other than that I'm 5'8, used to be 153lbs and I am now at 142 lbs (after workout)

Week 4
Day 1

Bench 6x110
DB flies 8x32.5
Chest supported rows 6x27.5
DB rows 8x32.5

Repeat superset 5 times

Hanging Leg raises 1x5 1x4
Hanging Knee raises 2x10
Decline board leg thrust 1x12
Lying leg thrust 1x15
Ab scissors 1x10
Stab ball crunches 1x10 w/ 7kg med ball
Alternating crunches 1x26
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Week 4
Day 2

Circuit 1:
-DB bench 15x27.5
-DB squats 15x27.5
-Machine rows 15x80
-DB single leg RDL 10x27.5 each leg
-Stab ball crunches 15 w/ 7kg med ball

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2:
-Arnold press 15x27.5
-Leg extension 15x80
-Lat pull downs 15x95
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches 15 w/ 7kg med ball

Repeat 3 times

20 minute cardio bike
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 4
Days 4 and 6

Didnt go to the gym, been feeling like **** these past couple of days...
Going to have to lift a lot on week 5
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Ok I'm back, Took 2 weeks off due to illness and Finals, I started again on Monday, and decided to redo week 4 before progressing in weights again

Week 4
Day 1

-Barbell flat bench 6x110
-DB flies 8x32.5
-Chest supported rows 6x27.5
-DB rows 8x32.5

Repeated superset 4 times

Ab workout:
-Hanging leg raises 2x5
-Hanging knee raises 2x8
-Decline board leg thrust 1x12
-Lying leg thrust 1x15
-Ab scissors 1x10
-Stab ball crunches 1x10 with 9kg med ball over head
-Alternating crunches 1x30
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 4
Day 2

Circuit 1:
-Db flat bench 15x27.5
-Db squats 15x27.5
-Machine rows 15x80
-Single leg DB RDL 10x27.5 (each leg)
-Stab ball crunches w/ 7kg med ball x15

Repeat 3 times

Circuit 2:
-Arnold press 15x27.5
-Leg extensions 15x80
-Pull downs 15x95
-Leg curls 15x60
-Stab ball crunches with 7kg med ball x15

Repeat 3 times

10 minute bike
 

TheFrenchConnec

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Week 4
Day 4

Front squats 6x135
Leg press 8x275
Stiff leg deads 6x155
Leg curls 8x70

Repeat 5 times

Ab workout

Hanging leg raises 2x5
Hanging knee raises 2x8
Decline board leg thrust 1x10
Lying leg thrust 1x12
Ab scissors 1x10
Stab ball crunches w/ 9kg med ball 1x10
Alternating crunches 1x26
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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