Freedom

[Lion]

Just split with ex-gf, time to move on. Set up a drink with a buddy tomorrow.
See what I can make with life, I'm applying for new jobs, looking for a new car, thinking of moving out...

It's going to be a real challenge, I still work for her dad.

I really need to make more friends, been reliant on my ex-gfs mutual friend groups for nearly 3 years now. No contact, no going back. Wish me luck :rockon:

 

[Ease]

whats your story with the ex?

 

[Lion]

She couldn't continue with the relationship because:
I said some things about her person and how we are different - I didn't express this in the most effective way, (note: I really need to work on my speech and be able to tell people things without offending them)
She wants commitment, marriage - I say we are young, she says she feels old and ready to settle down. She is definitely someone I see myself with for the rest of my life but I need to figure out if I want to settle down.

 

[vagrant]

She couldn't continue with the relationship because:
I said some things about her person and how we are different - I didn't express this in the most effective way, (note: I really need to work on my speech and be able to tell people things without offending them)
She wants commitment, marriage - I say we are young, she says she feels old and ready to settle down. She is definitely someone I see myself with for the rest of my life but I need to figure out if I want to settle down.

Big mistake bro. If you can see yourself with her for the rest of your life. I'm talking about if you really like this girl a whole lot and she feels the same way, man I'd kill to be in that situation again.

Most of the guys here in sosuave and plainly everywhere for that matter, are looking for what you got. Sounds to me like you're going to find out what I'm talking about the hard way. That's alright, I'm sure then you'll really man up and start to be a DJ.

If you have a good girl who's all that and really cares for you, no need to be hanging out with chicks who want no part of you.

Truth is, no matter how DJ you are, it's seldom that you will find a good looking girl who will actually care for you without all the sh*t test and the other bullsh*t. I'm talking about, knowing the good things about you, and the bad things about you, and still deeply without any bullsh*t , loves you. Most women settle down for a lot of reasons and caring and actually liking the guy is the last on their list. They just need a man. They don't need exactly you, just a man, or a guy who looks like a man.

Vagrant!~

 

[chrisgoodrich25]

Big mistake bro. If you can see yourself with her for the rest of your life. I'm talking about if you really like this girl a whole lot and she feels the same way, man I'd kill to be in that situation again.

Most of the guys here in sosuave and plainly everywhere for that matter, are looking for what you got. Sounds to me like you're going to find out what I'm talking about the hard way. That's alright, I'm sure then you'll really man up and start to be a DJ.

If you have a good girl who's all that and really cares for you, no need to be hanging out with chicks who want no part of you.

Truth is, no matter how DJ you are, it's seldom that you will find a good looking girl who will actually care for you without all the sh*t test and the other bullsh*t. I'm talking about, knowing the good things about you, and the bad things about you, and still deeply without any bullsh*t , loves you. Most women settle down for a lot of reasons and caring and actually liking the guy is the last on their list. They just need a man. They don't need exactly you, just a man, or a guy who looks like a man.

Vagrant!~

i completley agree...games are a waste of time..dating and random *****es are a waste a time...see if you got what you nead to eat at the house...it prepares itself for meal time...and all you have to do is come home from work at the end of the day to get it...you gona shop at the store for something like it...get it home..cook it and then find out its what you already had waiting hot on the stove for you...your goddamn fool.