"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Freedom or love?

Gubby

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It's a false question.

More love = more freedom.

There can be no compromise. Less love = less freedom.

Any love, i.e. conditional love, which hurts your freedom as a man, is not real love. Reject it.

Any freedom, such as conditional money (a job that you hate), which hurts your love is not freedom.


If you conquered the world but had nothing to love from it what would it be worth to you? Nothing!

If everyone loved you but no-one let you be yourself, would you feel satisfied in love?


Having fun, teasing, making interesting conversation, doing things, expressing yourself, breaking the woman's sexual barriers, is an expression of freedom. This is the DJ mindset in a nutshell.

LOVING FREEDOM
FREE LOVE

Both making each other stronger. They are interdependent in the fullest sense of the word.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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