"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Free weights vs Machines?

diplomatic_lies

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Just curious, I've heard a lot how free weights are better than machines, cuz they work more muscles than the machine does.

Is this true? Free weights meaning dumbells, bars, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Aiken_Drum

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Yes, it is true.
With the exception of row, tricep pushdown, leg press & a few others, machines are sh!t.
 

xyzzy

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Free weights are superior because you work the tiny stabalizer muscles along with your large muscle groups. When you try to hold the weights up a lot more muscles come into play.

Machines are stable so you work only the major muscles the machine is designed for.

Personally I work freeweights first and if Im tired and still have workout time left, switch to the machines. That way when the small muscles are worn out, I can still work my major ones to the max.

So basically I go freeweights, then bars, then cables, then machines. But the meat of the workout should be freeweights.
 

Soshyopathe

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What xyzzy said.

The only acceptable machines are cable machines since your movement is not controlled. The lat pull-downs and tri pushdown and cable flies are all cool. Leg press is cool too, but only after squats.
 
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