Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Free Training for those in the DC/Maryland area

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My 4 week course is scheduled to begin this Thursday, January 5th at 6pm in Columbia, MD. The class is free and seats are somewhat limited. Class dates are the 5th, 12th 19th, and the 26th. Contact me if you wish to attend for location and final details.

The course is a fusion of Adam Lyons, Spear, Neil Strauss, Toastmasters, and personal experience. Topics include:

  • Verbal and non-verbal communications
  • Building commonalities
  • Escalation
  • Closing
  • Logistics
  • And much more

Class meets once a week for instruction and drills, plus field instruction as schedules allow.

Syllabus:

**Week 1**

  • Course introduction
  • Core elements of building attraction
  • Logistics & Investment
  • Comfort & Rapport
  • Metagame & Propinquity
  • Verbal communication
  • Non-verbal communication
  • Approaching - The 3 most important factors
  • Preopening through transitioning

Week 1 Notes


**Week 2**

  • Indicators of Interest & Disinterest
  • Approach Invitations
  • Qualification & Disqualification
  • Setting goals
  • Having standards and screening for them
  • Managing objections/roadblocks

Week 2 Notes


**Week 3**

  • Conversational Mastery
  • Building commonalities
  • Vertical vs Horizontal
  • 4WH
  • Seeding the conversation
  • Escalation - Physical, Verbal, & Plausible Deniability
  • Getting contact details
  • Pulling from a venue
  • Instant dates
  • Text-game

Week 3 Notes


**Week 4**

  • Wingmanship
  • Review
  • Q & A
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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