"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Free Training for those in the DC/Maryland area

Nutz

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My 4 week course is scheduled to begin this Thursday, January 5th at 6pm in Columbia, MD. The class is free and seats are somewhat limited. Class dates are the 5th, 12th 19th, and the 26th. Contact me if you wish to attend for location and final details.

The course is a fusion of Adam Lyons, Spear, Neil Strauss, Toastmasters, and personal experience. Topics include:

  • Verbal and non-verbal communications
  • Building commonalities
  • Escalation
  • Closing
  • Logistics
  • And much more

Class meets once a week for instruction and drills, plus field instruction as schedules allow.

Syllabus:

**Week 1**

  • Course introduction
  • Core elements of building attraction
  • Logistics & Investment
  • Comfort & Rapport
  • Metagame & Propinquity
  • Verbal communication
  • Non-verbal communication
  • Approaching - The 3 most important factors
  • Preopening through transitioning

Week 1 Notes


**Week 2**

  • Indicators of Interest & Disinterest
  • Approach Invitations
  • Qualification & Disqualification
  • Setting goals
  • Having standards and screening for them
  • Managing objections/roadblocks

Week 2 Notes


**Week 3**

  • Conversational Mastery
  • Building commonalities
  • Vertical vs Horizontal
  • 4WH
  • Seeding the conversation
  • Escalation - Physical, Verbal, & Plausible Deniability
  • Getting contact details
  • Pulling from a venue
  • Instant dates
  • Text-game

Week 3 Notes


**Week 4**

  • Wingmanship
  • Review
  • Q & A
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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