"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Free Live Coaching!! I Need Experience as a Coach in NYC

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I hope this isn't inappropriate for this forum; if so, please accept my apologies!

I happened across the Community through a friend of mine who I coached in college, back before either of us had any idea that that's what we were doing. He was a math nerd at the timne and had absolutely no game to speak of. For me, however, it seemed to come natural. In any event, he would call me for advice on dates; I also took him shopping, critiqued his game when we were out, etc.

Fast-forward ten years; I'm now living in New York City and am at the top of my game; my friend is a math professor at a large state school. Over the past ten years he went from his experiences with me to being involved heavily in the community, to pulling back and nuancing his own style now that he's got the basics down. (He just wrote to tell me he closed with a stripper!)

For the past year he's been trying to convince me to be a coach--he says I'm a lot better at this stuff than most of the guys he meets--and I'm ready to give it a shot.

The problem is, I have no idea where to advertise, nor am I savvy enough about the Community to know where to start. Which is where we may be able to help each other. What I need is your word-of-mouth advertising, a reference, and access to advertising opportunities I may not know about in exchange for two free coaching sessions. Although I have only coached informally in the past, I am totally confident that, if we decide it's a good match, I'll be able to do for you what I did for my math friend.

My emphasis would be "Natural Game," which is what I do best. I avoid gimmicks, and I've also got excellent body language (or so my friend tells me) and am very fashion-savvy.

Please email me at alexmarcus at gmail dot com if you're interested, and thanks for reading!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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