Mjfan12
Don Juan
I cant get to it.
the browser says not found.
the browser says not found.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Free ebooklet on problems approaching.
- Thread starter Gunwitch
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ever onward
Master Don Juan
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Does anyone know Gunwitch's email address? Maybe we can get him to fix the link.
could i have a copy too please? [email protected]
gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
if someone has it. ill host it
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Unfortunately guys I had a copy but judging from the date it was on a laptop that got stolen a month later.
Some crack bum might be pretty good at picking up chicks now plus he might have a good job given my resume was on there.
Some crack bum might be pretty good at picking up chicks now plus he might have a good job given my resume was on there.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
Just go to the main website, go to the free section, and sign up for the report. I think it is the one being discussed, and it gets emailed to you pretty much straightaway.
I've read it before.. Its probably in another post around here somewhere.
I've read it before.. Its probably in another post around here somewhere.
legolas
Master Don Juan
Get it while it's still there http://dynamicsexlife.com/DSLapproach.pdf
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SELF-MASTERY
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Quality.
avrilishot
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good stuff
