"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Freaks of nature are a waste of talent

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My brother has a friend who is an insane sprinter, naturally athletic, and pretty much only fast-twitch muscle fibers (my bro said he sucks in distance). But basically this kid as a 7th grader went 19 seconds in his 200m dash for his physical testing. My bro said he remembered that he himself got around 30 seconds and by the time he was halfway around the track, his friend was just about to finish. He also said his PE teacher freaked out when he saw the time. Now obviously there may have been some something up, but I asked my brother if he honestly believes that his friend went the world record time when he was in 7th grade. He said he thought about it over the years and because of how outrageous it seemed and tried rationalizing everything, but in the end what he saw was too real. His friend even said that was the fastest he ever ran in his life. He didn't even do track until after that event because everyone told him that he should. he ended up quitting though before high school.

I just look at those things like what am I doing wrong. I always wished I was a genetic freak. Anyone know how to change their genetics? (we essentially can through epigenetics, but how is one supposed to do so?)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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At that age his friend may have ran 23-24 seconds if he was fast. Your friend probably did it in 35. Speed can be developed but you need power. These guys also ride adrenaline. So you might be put there chilling not being competitive and power and adrenaline is flowing thru them. It makes a huge difference.
 

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At that age his friend may have ran 23-24 seconds if he was fast. Your friend probably did it in 35. Speed can be developed but you need power. These guys also ride adrenaline. So you might be put there chilling not being competitive and power and adrenaline is flowing thru them. It makes a huge difference.
My brother did it in 30, he remembers. His friend did it in 19. He remembers that clearly too because that's not something you forget. You don't come across those people too often, but it does happen I guess.
 

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My brother did it in 30, he remembers. His friend did it in 19. He remembers that clearly too because that's not something you forget. You don't come across those people too often, but it does happen I guess.
I don't believe it. The world record Waa stuck at 19.83 seconds for 40 years. This is in highly trained, coached and drugged sprinters. You cannot develop that much without taking the time to develop.
 

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Maybe they did 150m. Its like saying a seventh grader with no coaching, no development no training is going to smoke swimmer Michael Phelps by 10 body lengths.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe they did 150m. Its like saying a seventh grader with no coaching, no development no training is going to smoke swimmer Michael Phelps by 10 body lengths.
Swimming is different. It isn't a natural movement or environment for humans, whereas walking and running is. Though maybe it was 150 meters because it was at a middle school.
 
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