"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Freaking Weird Text, Help

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Swashbuckler

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Okay, there is this girl I've been informally dating for a couple weeks now. We're not a thing or anything. We just hang out and go out to eat and flirt all the time.

So anyways, Saturday night she sends me this text out of the blue. We hung out for 3 hours Friday, so I'm wondering if she did this to check up on me.

Saturday 12:17 AM-

Her: I think I'm going to die. I've been kidnapped by a gay man.

Me: Yikes, sounds like quite the pickle.

Her: I wish I was kidding. I've been taken to walmart. I just want to go home.

Me: Gay guys go to walmart, odd?

Her: I got cookies though so things are looking up.

Me: Well that's good. If you're going to die, give me a call I'll come save you from this gay man.
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What the hell was she trying to doing? Was she trying to provoke something?

I probably handled it wrong, but I was at a UFC party, so my attention wasn't solely on her. The last text I sent her was to show her I'd have her back if I need be.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you shouldve just texted her saying that "you're trying to hard" or "what a corny pick up line" or "thats pretty lame".
 
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jdjd

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maybe she was bored and just wanted to chat?

dont really have to look into that much

u could've ignored it and just went to sleep....and call her back the next day? and say sorry was sleeping...had a long day...
 
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