"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Freaking Weird Text, Help

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Okay, there is this girl I've been informally dating for a couple weeks now. We're not a thing or anything. We just hang out and go out to eat and flirt all the time.

So anyways, Saturday night she sends me this text out of the blue. We hung out for 3 hours Friday, so I'm wondering if she did this to check up on me.

Saturday 12:17 AM-

Her: I think I'm going to die. I've been kidnapped by a gay man.

Me: Yikes, sounds like quite the pickle.

Her: I wish I was kidding. I've been taken to walmart. I just want to go home.

Me: Gay guys go to walmart, odd?

Her: I got cookies though so things are looking up.

Me: Well that's good. If you're going to die, give me a call I'll come save you from this gay man.
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What the hell was she trying to doing? Was she trying to provoke something?

I probably handled it wrong, but I was at a UFC party, so my attention wasn't solely on her. The last text I sent her was to show her I'd have her back if I need be.
 

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you shouldve just texted her saying that "you're trying to hard" or "what a corny pick up line" or "thats pretty lame".
 
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maybe she was bored and just wanted to chat?

dont really have to look into that much

u could've ignored it and just went to sleep....and call her back the next day? and say sorry was sleeping...had a long day...
 
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