“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Frame Control

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I've heard a bit about frame control and it sounds like an interesting concept but I haven't read anything in depth about it. All I know is it's something like bringing other people into your reality. Does anyone have any suggested reading matter (preferably free), tips, experience, or thoughts on the subject?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good question. I think it's time we revisited this topic.

On thing I find effective is to not feel that I have to answer every question a girl puts forth. Sometimes I will completely ignore her question and either pose a different question to her or start talking about something else as if she never asked it. This is a very dominating move and it sets the frame. Your frame.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
On thing I find effective is to not feel that I have to answer every question a girl puts forth. Sometimes I will completely ignore her question and either pose a different question to her or start talking about something else as if she never asked it. This is a very dominating move and it sets the frame. Your frame.
Interesting idea. Probably frustrates them as well, which might not be a bad thing.
 

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Yup. Among other things it ramps up the mystery.
 
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