You've got the girl......she's shown interest. She accepted your invitation to have some drinks...
perhaps you've even slept with her....
You'd like to see her again....
What now?
Do you fear losing her?
Do you fear saying the wrong thing?
Is she crossing your boundaries?
Is she giving you ****e tests?
You don't know how to handle her?
You've forgotten one fundamental truth: women are basically like overgrown children.
Should we be upset with this dilemma? hell no, what does being upset accomplish....nothing.
Women are like children: emotional, reactionary, volatile, they throw tantrums......
is it helpful that we act as children too? hell no.....
Every child needs.........A FATHER FIGURE.
Every child needs a guide, a stern hand, a word of warning, somebody to tell them NO....but a father cannot be a totally domineering figure, he can reward good behavior.....
....however, never fvcking forget to punish bad behavior. Does it have to be an extreme punishment? hell no......it can even be done jokingly....but....YOU'VE GOT TO ACKNOWLEDGE WHERE SHE IS NOT BEHAVING THE WAY HER FATHER WOULD PREFER SHE BEHAVES....
if she walks, or "runs away from home"?....**** HER....PLENTY OF CHILDREN NEED A STERN HAND......
Where's the issue? too many posts here are men admitting that they are not behaving like men....in fact they are mollycoddling women and then they are wondering why their women are out of control and eventually leaving them......
FRAME YOUR INTERACTIONS GENTS: be her father figure.
perhaps you've even slept with her....
You'd like to see her again....
What now?
Do you fear losing her?
Do you fear saying the wrong thing?
Is she crossing your boundaries?
Is she giving you ****e tests?
You don't know how to handle her?
You've forgotten one fundamental truth: women are basically like overgrown children.
Should we be upset with this dilemma? hell no, what does being upset accomplish....nothing.
Women are like children: emotional, reactionary, volatile, they throw tantrums......
is it helpful that we act as children too? hell no.....
Every child needs.........A FATHER FIGURE.
Every child needs a guide, a stern hand, a word of warning, somebody to tell them NO....but a father cannot be a totally domineering figure, he can reward good behavior.....
....however, never fvcking forget to punish bad behavior. Does it have to be an extreme punishment? hell no......it can even be done jokingly....but....YOU'VE GOT TO ACKNOWLEDGE WHERE SHE IS NOT BEHAVING THE WAY HER FATHER WOULD PREFER SHE BEHAVES....
if she walks, or "runs away from home"?....**** HER....PLENTY OF CHILDREN NEED A STERN HAND......
Where's the issue? too many posts here are men admitting that they are not behaving like men....in fact they are mollycoddling women and then they are wondering why their women are out of control and eventually leaving them......
FRAME YOUR INTERACTIONS GENTS: be her father figure.