"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fractued collar bone

digitalrat

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I was in an accident and I flew out of the car and landed on my shoulder. Its fractured and created a lump. On the X-Ray, it looks like the bone couldnt take the weight and just broke right in the middle. The bone is still right next to each other, but in half.

Now, I've been in a sling for 2 1/2 weeks. I go to see the doc again in a week an a half.

I want to know how long until I can weight train again?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NMMWCR

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Don't ask us.

ASK YOUR DOCTOR WHEN YOU CAN LIFT AGAIN!!!
 

Cheatz

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I had my collar bone fractued and it fuking killed, i couldn't lift my left arm or else agonising pain will gain the better of me. I had to wait about 6 weeks until i fully regained myself.
 

penkitten

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i broke my collar bone in half back in 2000. the doctor would not set it at the hospital because i was out of state on vacation when it happened. by the time i got home, it already started fusing together.
it took about eight to ten weeks for mine to heal.
needless to say , since it wasnt set properly, it sticks out a little
and still hurts sometimes.

much luck to you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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