“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: When She Doesn't Mention Her Boyfriend

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Sometimes I return to my AFC-ness, but some nights I'm on point. I've noticed it's usually when I think I have nothing to lose.

I met a chick through friends of friends on Saturday afternoon. Heavy flirting, kino, number close.

I talked to one of my friends about her on Sunday night and he said "dude you were flirting with Michelle hardcore - she has a boyfriend". My response "she never said anything to me".

I figure WTF worth a try. Texting convo later that night:

Me: Hey Michelle this is Uncharted from yesterday. Let's get drinks after work on Tuesday. xxx bar at 6PM.
Michelle: Heyyyyy yeah ok great! :)

So she agreed to go out...

I figured if this girl has a boyfriend, I might as well go all out on the escalation because I figured at some point she was going to turn me down and I would just come onto SS to post how far I could get. My goals were simple: sex or rejection.

We met at my place then I drove to the bar (thanks SS for this idea). I push/pulled like a crazy person. All over her, then nothing. Then all over her again, then aloof (my phone rang and she saw it was another girl). She was touching me like crazy. Almost every time she said something she would touch my hand/arm/whatever. 1.5 hours at the bar (3 rounds of drinks), then back to my place for two more drinks. She kept mentioning that her friends said she should meet me and that she's been wanting to meet me for a MONTH.

She just left here after I fcked her silly.

Lesson 1: If she has high IL she does not have a boyfriend.
Lesson 2: Social proof is extremely important.
Lesson 3: Persistence is key.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Branch swing.

Notice she didn't mention her BF. Women and men wouldn’t want to abandon the comforts of their current relationship unless they have validation they can do better. Once attained, their partner becomes disposable. The advantage of being in a relationship with disposable partner is what you can get away with. You will see her again very soon.

You, her and the BF.
 

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I agree. And I also think that if we got together (I have no intention of this happening) all of her friends would approve of the branch swinging.

She just cheated on her boyfriend. If the situation was reversed, her friends would be saying "what a douche/assh0le/d!ck/etc". Now they would say "well good for you, old bf was a jerk anyway".
 
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