"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FR: What's next?

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I'll spare you the details cuz I don't remember a lot of it.

I went to a local bar to see battle of the bands thing. There I met this cool chick and we really got talking building strong rapport. After the concert we venue changed to a club where we danced and had a lightweight makeout in the lounge area. At the end of the night while looking for a taxi she was the first one to suggest exchanging numbers and hanging out next week.

Ok, I already established strong rapport with this girl and we made out so we're kinda past the 1st date stage. What do you guys think would be a good 2nd date to move things along nicely? I had a few ideas like shooting pool, going to movies, going to local bar then watching a movie at my place.

What's your take on it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ask her if she wants to come round to watch a movie. If your confident that you havce broken the ice. Skip the **** and just invite her over.
 

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avoid the movies. take her out... somewhere lively where u can chat to her etc. maybe a bar/club. Buy her a few drinks, charm her a little, and by going to a club it give you a chance to make the move and kiss her.
 

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Don't buy her any drinks.

Meet for a drink, preferably somewhere where you enjoy social proof and can treat her as a guest in your reality, re-establish rapport, get kino then invite her back for a movie or just to hang out. If you do watch a movie make it scary to get her horny or something trashy that requires little attention so you can make sarcastic comments together.
 

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Originally posted by DJspring
avoid the movies. take her out... somewhere lively where u can chat to her etc. maybe a bar/club. Buy her a few drinks, charm her a little, and by going to a club it give you a chance to make the move and kiss her.

Did you even read the post. Hes already been making out with her. Still think a home invite is best way to go.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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