“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: What I got into all this for...

Mr Wright

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I had one of those nights out to show myself how far I've come. I was out in a large group, some new faces, some old but all good fun. If you've read some of my other FR's you know with most social circle situations, I play it the same way. Display confidence and ignore any girl I have interest in for the first few hours. Unfortunately, this time there were not any new girls that I was interested in but there was a girl I've known for a while and made out with a few times and she's the hottest girl in the room, knows it and everyone's trying to fück her lol.

We get the venue and I'm having a great time for the first hour. I'm usually pretty mellow but I was in a particularly good mood and was a lot more chatty than usual. So after this hour, I decide to have a little scout and in a venue with hundreds of girls, I pick my top three who have caught my eye. The girls who have firstly dressed well, look hot as fück and the kind of girl who has people staring at them because they look so good. One of these girls, walks past me, I get a bit nervous and don't approach. I shake it off and go back to my mates, and dance some more. The other hot girl who is in my social circle is starting to dance closer to me and is just too close for coincidence. She grinds up on me, it's all good, we also have a few moments of intense eye contact but leave it at that. I leave to go to the toilet and in front of me as I'm walking is another one of the girls I picked out earlier. Slim, brunette, cracking behind and sharp blue eyes. I'm behind her but I make a passing comment loud enough for her to hear and she turns around, we chat a little and her friend walks off but she doesn't follow. Good sign. I take her somewhere a little more quiet. We get to know each other a little, some of my friends walk past and give a raised eyebrow in approval. We chat a bit more but I really need the toilet at this point so I take her number and excuse myself.

After I get a drink and go back to my group, dance some more and some random chick comes up to me and starts asking me loads of questions then grabs me by the hand and walks me over to the other side of the bar, where the girl I was talking to earlier was standing. Obviously she had seen us talking previously and felt the need to intervene further. So I chat some more with her, things a little more sexual now, I'm against a wall and I hold her close to me and make out. I can tell she's really into me, she's being really compliant and sticking around. It's important to note at this time that I couldn't just leave with her because I had no where to go and wasn't staying at home that night. So logistics were a major issue and she was from out of town and also staying a friend's. Annoying but that's life.

I go back to my friend's and dance some more and the girl who was grinding on me earlier was asking who that girl was, saying "oh she's so pretty" etc, girl shït. I just look at her, I start to see her game. We dance some more and end up making out. The power of pre-selection strikes again. So now I have a choice, run the risk with the smoking hot chick or play the odds with this girl who is also hot. I decide to play it cool on both, we're all outside looking for cabs and the brunette is looking over at me to check if I'm looking and the other girl can see this and says "if you want to go with her you should" haha. Girls. So I go over to chat with her some more, turns out she's in town for a few more days I set up a meet up(which I just got back from) for the next day. Kiss her goodnight and go back to the other girl. Shameless. This is dragging a little now so long story short I banged the other one back at her place.

But my mates were watching all this unfold with that "how the fück does he get away with this?" sort of look on their faces. I credit to everything I've learnt on here and the wider community. Have standards, stick to them and your vibe will be good.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Haha nice one m8 !

What happended with the out of town brunette :D ??
 

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Hehe. Nothing gets a girl wetter than shameless and bold behavior upon her and others. I find the more shamelessness and boldness you display, the greater likelihood of a lay and orbiter she becomes.

Keep the shameless FRs coming brother, and let it echo upon the other DJs in the forum.
 
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I had one of those nights out to show myself how far I've come. I was out in a large group, some new faces, some old but all good fun. If you've read some of my other FR's you know with most social circle situations, I play it the same way. Display confidence and ignore any girl I have interest in for the first few hours. Unfortunately, this time there were not any new girls that I was interested in but there was a girl I've known for a while and made out with a few times and she's the hottest girl in the room, knows it and everyone's trying to fück her lol.

We get the venue and I'm having a great time for the first hour. I'm usually pretty mellow but I was in a particularly good mood and was a lot more chatty than usual. So after this hour, I decide to have a little scout and in a venue with hundreds of girls, I pick my top three who have caught my eye. The girls who have firstly dressed well, look hot as fück and the kind of girl who has people staring at them because they look so good. One of these girls, walks past me, I get a bit nervous and don't approach. I shake it off and go back to my mates, and dance some more. The other hot girl who is in my social circle is starting to dance closer to me and is just too close for coincidence. She grinds up on me, it's all good, we also have a few moments of intense eye contact but leave it at that. I leave to go to the toilet and in front of me as I'm walking is another one of the girls I picked out earlier. Slim, brunette, cracking behind and sharp blue eyes. I'm behind her but I make a passing comment loud enough for her to hear and she turns around, we chat a little and her friend walks off but she doesn't follow. Good sign. I take her somewhere a little more quiet. We get to know each other a little, some of my friends walk past and give a raised eyebrow in approval. We chat a bit more but I really need the toilet at this point so I take her number and excuse myself.

After I get a drink and go back to my group, dance some more and some random chick comes up to me and starts asking me loads of questions then grabs me by the hand and walks me over to the other side of the bar, where the girl I was talking to earlier was standing. Obviously she had seen us talking previously and felt the need to intervene further. So I chat some more with her, things a little more sexual now, I'm against a wall and I hold her close to me and make out. I can tell she's really into me, she's being really compliant and sticking around. It's important to note at this time that I couldn't just leave with her because I had no where to go and wasn't staying at home that night. So logistics were a major issue and she was from out of town and also staying a friend's. Annoying but that's life.

I go back to my friend's and dance some more and the girl who was grinding on me earlier was asking who that girl was, saying "oh she's so pretty" etc, girl shït. I just look at her, I start to see her game. We dance some more and end up making out. The power of pre-selection strikes again. So now I have a choice, run the risk with the smoking hot chick or play the odds with this girl who is also hot. I decide to play it cool on both, we're all outside looking for cabs and the brunette is looking over at me to check if I'm looking and the other girl can see this and says "if you want to go with her you should" haha. Girls. So I go over to chat with her some more, turns out she's in town for a few more days I set up a meet up(which I just got back from) for the next day. Kiss her goodnight and go back to the other girl. Shameless. This is dragging a little now so long story short I banged the other one back at her place.

But my mates were watching all this unfold with that "how the fück does he get away with this?" sort of look on their faces. I credit to everything I've learnt on here and the wider community. Have standards, stick to them and your vibe will be good.
Well done mate. You accomished this through showing social value, confidence and high value mindset.
Just a couple question for my own research,

Would you consider your looks above average?
Whats your height, weight, bodybuild and race?
Body build options are thin, average, muscular slim build, muscular bulky build, chubby or fat.
Thanks, not being nosey just for use on an article im writing.
 

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Lol i like this bro. Reminds me when I was a scallywag and a scoundrel out on the nightclub circuit
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Shameless is exactly the right attitude. Why apologise for doing what you want. For goodness sakes, the two of them at the end of the evening were persuading you go with the other so you'd fulfill their own fcked up validation criteria. It's like they want you to break their hearts before they will fck you!

Pre-selection is definitely one of the most powerful factors. Am just re-discovering now, via FB etc. The more women showing an interest the more that will come out of the woodwork. I have these shameless divorcees basically telling me they want to fck me openly on my profile, then within a matter of days, younger more eligible models are blowing up my inbox and phone.

Excellent reports as always.
 

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Hehe. Nothing gets a girl wetter than shameless and bold behavior upon her and others. I find the more shamelessness and boldness you display, the greater likelihood of a lay and orbiter she becomes.

Keep the shameless FRs coming brother, and let it echo upon the other DJs in the forum.

agreed , some of the stuff ive seen women do once freed from social constraints would make your skin crawl
 

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Thanks fellas, I try to keep track on here as much as possible so others can learn.

Would you consider your looks above average?
Whats your height, weight, bodybuild and race?
Body build options are thin, average, muscular slim build, muscular bulky build, chubby or fat.
Thanks, not being nosey just for use on an article im writing.
I'd consider myself a 7.5 in terms of looks. Not top tier but good looking enough to not get laughed out the door for approaching hotties.

I'm 5 foot 10, weigh about 80kg at ~10% bf, a muscular slim build with wide shoulders and a narrow waist and I'm black.
 
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