"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Weekend Sarging

bachelor

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Let me give you a little background on this girl. HB 8 from some small town in Canada. Met her on facebook through my "facebook method." I run into her at a club about a month ago and she approaches me saying "This is going to sound strange, but I think we are facebook friends." I played some CF with her and said "Oh yeah facebook friends." She had to leave that night and we parted ways.

Fast forward to now. I have ran into her a few times since then but we hadn't hooked up. Last night, she is at the same bar as me and out of nowhere she says "Hey." We start talking and I make an exit because I had to buy a drink. It was around 2 oclock this time. Her friend who is a major pain was there. Her friend is a 6 and she gets crazy drunk and the girl I'm with usually has to do the babysitting. We continue to dance and I decide to try to make an exit to a different atmosphere IE being another bar.

She goes and talks to her friends and she comes back. We head to the next bar and she buys me the first drink. Gotta love it when girls buy you or offer a drink lol... We dance there for another hour. I decided to use the "kiss test" on her since I haven't made out with her. I start kissing on her neck while dancing to some hip-hop they were playing. Receptive I go for the lips and I'm in... Good make out session lasts about 15 minutes. This girls a great kisser. After hanging out at the club for over an hr, I decide to set something up with her. " We should go hang out at your place after this." She says " My place? Ok."


We go and look for her friends and we cannot find them. I go back to her place and we make out some more. We both pass out. I leave the next morning and we set something up for the following weekend.


I get back to my place which is far from the previous girl and my boy phones me. He says "My ex gf (who he is still hooking up with-friends as benefits) has her friend coming over and wants me to help wing for him. Gotta love when your boys hook it up like that. I go and meet up with them for dinner shes an HB 8 Korean Girl nice body too. My boy and I are macking the two of them over some beers and good Korean food.

We go back to his ex's place and we have some more drinks. Koreans are big on side dishes while you are drinking so they are making food to go with the wine/beer we have. We start playing you tube videos of American Music ( they are Korean I'm living in Korea.) They have a blast with it dancing and she begins to show me signs of kino grabbing onto me while I was looking for new videos.

My boy's girl had to work the next morning and her friend was staying there so I made the exit and left. I gave her a kiss and held onto her hands for a few seconds and tell her "Let's meet up again sometime." I'll let you guys know how it goes!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds like it was mighty fine! Shame that both u and the girl didn't get to have amazing raunchy sex and passed out instead...but still glad u got to have fun tho. I forget...Korean girls...how do they compared from other asian girls?
 

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Yeah, I'm working on her she's more of the shy reserved type but I'll keep at it.

Korean girls are very attractive dress nice and have good style. The only problem is alot of them are conservative and shy. They will tell you they don't know English when they really do know some. They are taught it at a young age here. I'm working on my Korean and I know that will help me. I've hooked up with Korean girls in the states and it's less challenging. The Korean girls I have hooked up with in Korea I have had to have alot of patience in speaking slower and the language barrier. (Damn they are cute!) The language barrier seems to be the real issue. Overall, the Japanese girls are more attractive in my opinion. I'm going to Thailand soon and apparently Thai girls are pretty hot. Maybe some more people can elaborate on this.
 
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