"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Weekend Peacocking UK

Tallerguy

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I organised a group of five male friends to hit the bars, pubs and clubs in a town about 15 miles from my home town. Very cool people including a natural. Everyone dresses well and well groomed.

Clothing: Green MERC designer t-shirt, Dark denim jeans with a LED display belt buckle that scrolls messages all night. Brown leather jacket, shoes and wrist strap with matching strap watch and a small Tibet wrist charm.

Messages scrolling on LED belt buck, changed them all night
WHILEYOUAREREADINGTHISIAMSTARINGATYOURTITS
I LIE TO GIRLS (I get opened a lot with this one)
I LIKE GIRLS THAT LIKE GIRLS
MASTER OF THE UNIVERSE, DUMB AS ****

First Bar, Cheep drinks venue
It was very quite as the start of the night. Three set with hb5-6 on an adjustment table. I needed to warm up as was in a quite mood for some reason, nerve I guess on the train ride. Asked about a particular venue and they helped me out. I went to give a HB a high five because she got the name of a bar we could not remember and she dropped her fag on her friend in eagerness!, lol sensed a ***** shield come up fast after my first opener and ejected.
On my way out talked to a mixed set with a HB in it that opened me about the belt. Just ran C&F stuff and left for next bar.

Second bar, Cool open plan bar with DJ
Bumped into a female pal and used her to opener her friends or friends of friends. Almost everyone has a BF and used a few BF destroyers to no avail. It was about 4 HB including a black HB8. My natural friend has a HB6 and was sitting down in rapport stage by the time I returned. He exchanged # but said he was not that interested in her.

Third Bar, Trendy African style bar
Loads of stares from people and barmaids likes the belt. I agree with her and order drinks. Completely into friends, high 5’s, big laughs and ignoring all the staring eyes. I spot first set 5-6 with a HB8 and obey the 3 second rule. I did not wait for IOI’s just a cold approach with the JG (Jealous girlfriend) opener. I asked the whole group and got everyone attention at the start. All gave me feed back and I asked where else to go. The vibe began to wane as I think I talked to the HB too much and should have attracted her friends more.

I got opened by a HB7 with a guy sitting down next to the set I had just approached. She waved me over and I waved back and continued my conversation for a while. A little later I went over and said Hi. I actual know this girl from sarging in my home town and carried on our little joke about me thinking her name is X when it is actual Y. The dude was not with her but again struggled with vibing so ejected back to friends.

Forth Bar, Open plan
I see a HB7&5 two set and open, I vibe much better (drink?) and play some games with them. A dude friend shows up and after the HB7 goes to the toilet says that she is into me because she digs facial hair!?? Weird, I am sure he had not time to actual talk to her. Anyway he backed right off while I was gaming them both. I ejected back to my friends after asking them where was good to go.

Fifth Bar, Quite bar.

Only two sets in the place. I open a two set and vibe really well and play games and after a while I go to the toilet. On the way back I open a three set more for practise than anything else. It goes well and I return to my first set I was vibing with. The two HB’s have been scared off by my natural friend. Doh!

Night Club, cheesy and full of Ugs
I could not venue change so had to make do with this place for the last hour of the night. I opened a 6set and used my powerful voice to keep the conversation going. Played games, danced with a few and opened up sets around them. The best of them is a HB5 at a push. I become almost a celebrity and people take photo’s with me and I play C&F to the max. Good fun, now if only I can do that with a load of playboy babes!

That’s my first field report. Not a single close at all!

*I just deleted a bunch of excuses, I am sure you have herd them all before*


Tallerguy UK
“He who hesitates, masturbates”
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tomatoes

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Seems you were def giving it your fair go. Practise makes perfect. Sounds like your last choice of venue was a bad one. Dont go where UG are :D

There is ganna be nights when you don close. Its natrual.

Wait til out next and sarge on again. :woo:
 

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Um, I'd lose the "scrolling LED belt buckle".
Better luck next time.
 

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"...she dropped her fag on her friend in eagerness!"

You might want to explain to the Americans "she dropped her cigarette..." , since "fag" means something else entirely here! :D
 

Tallerguy

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The plan next month is just to look sharpe so I will be losing the LED belt. I have never peacocked before and had to try it out.

I do sarge every week but the big night then I can hit loads sets in only once a month. I have to be carful as I live in a very small town.

To be honest my inner game is so tight I honestly think the HB's are missing out on some thing really big... ME!
Once you have tight inner game, everythinh else with practise will follow. It's all about giving it a go :D

Thanks for the comments dudes

Tallerguy UK
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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theSpeculator

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Originally posted by Tallerguy
To be honest my inner game is so tight I honestly think the HB's are missing out on some thing really big... ME!
Once you have tight inner game, everythinh else with practise will follow. It's all about giving it a go :D
Sorry, I feel I really have to say this. No, your inner game is not tight. If it were than you wouldn't feel the need to talk about it, especially on a message board to strangers.
 

Tallerguy

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Thanks for the comment theSpeculator but I am good really. We are all on this board to learn or share stuff. But on inner game I am tighter that anyone I know including buddists and life coaches. It's just not a biggy for me.

Tallerguy
"He who hesitates, masturbates"
 
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