"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Walden's first Direct Approach

Walden

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This morning I tried my first direct appraoch .
Backstory was I saw a cute girl on the train she had a nice style and was giving it the big Lonewolf predators eyes checking guys out. I knew she was sharking and as we got off the train I thought about how I'd do it. Before I had chance to think of anything too clever I just found myself running the direct opener I'd been practicing as an excercise in tonality control.
"Excuse me , I don't mean to interrupt you there I just noticed you have a really nice style about you and I wanted to meet you".

The girl (Milissa , a hotel manager would you believe) opened up with a huge grin and said thank you. I did WYN and then ran with the convo (important to fill in the blanks here but I've learned that RSD style and my convo is tight).

I didn't close ( I was flying out in a couple hours) but couldve easily. It was kickass , saved so much effort of getting past the social hook point , making SOIs , boyfrend filtering , all of that just poof done already , plus it caqme off alpha as all fcuk!

I can see myslef also using it on crossing girls when we get eye contact "...I just noticed you back there...". Definitely need to take it out and see how well it hunts.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LucidDreamer

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Keep us updated....hopefully you can build up momentum and do this compulsively...that's the direction i'm trying to head in....a true inspiration, thx.
 

Walden

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She lives in wellington and I was flying out for Auckland in an hour or two.If I took her number and didn't call her I'd just leave her all septic for the next guy to come along.

PUA ethics mean that you don't land em if you ain't gonna eat 'em.

Mike.
 
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