Vulpine
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:crackup:
Stop tosh, I'm gonna nut.
No, really though, you MUST be confident when you speak.
Stop tosh, I'm gonna nut.
No, really though, you MUST be confident when you speak.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FR-- "vocal" orgasms? Proof that "teasing" works!
- Thread starter mattathensga
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
pimpfromdayone
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Haha, yeah, like I am undressing you, then I put it in.... then I like start thrusting in and out and in and out.... and... fu-ck this let's just do it.
mattathensga
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Wow, thats lame... and obviously you have NO imagination outside of getting a nut out, furthermore YOU are missing the point.... the MORE intense her orgasms get, and in frequency, the more she will be willing to do to get YOU there, and WHAT she will be doing with IT.... ever had a woman Beg, and I mean BEG for you to spread it all over her face???? I've been there, done that, and its all based on this technique...
Fear is Based on Misunderstanding. Knowledge is the source of Pleasure.
good luck with your one nut..... My average is over three a session, and my partner's average is over fifty a session.
Just B/C I am educated in Sexual pleasure, and YOU do not understand, you feel that by making fun you are justifing youself. I am not offended. actually, I feel SORRY for YOU.... You shall NEVER have any comprehension of what I know, nor experience what exists in my world.... to me you just haven't evolved, and that elicits pity upon you from my behalf....and ESPECIALLY for the women that YOU feel that you are satisfying... thats why they leave (break-up with) people like you for ME.
mattathensga
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I am way, way too drunk to respond politely, nor comprehendibly to this, but WHEN I sober up, I will post actual wordage, and as best to my abiltility post a trascript of language that I have used, just give me a day or two to reach sobriety! LOL......
Chillisauce
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i'm going to choose to disbelieve that, to save my precious ego.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mattathensga
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people tend to disbelieve what they've never experienced..... 
Chillisauce
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hahah, if i could make my partner orgasm 25 times in one session i'd let everyone in my city know it over the loudspeaker, then form my own religion .
.pimpfromdayone
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Just what in the FU-CK are you talking about?? Obviously what I wrote was meant as a complete joke, and you my friend have just made a huge fool of yourself for getting all defensive, you fuc-king jackass. Thanks for all the uncalled-for insults you threw my way but please, this is a message board and nobody gives a shi-t one way or the other about your so-called success.... yet you seem to think they do. Making fun to justify myself? Wow. I'm sure if I really cared I would at least be smart enough to not attempt to justify myself on a dam-n internet message board. I hope you have given yourself that much needed ego boost from posting your "success" on this message board, and until next time, stay away from the drugs.... I don't know who you think you are but you make a he-lluva lot of assumptions about me and in turn made a complete as-s of yourself with all that egotistical gibberish you spewed out (re-read you second paragraph there). "Evolved"?? hahahahhahah
mattathensga
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.... lets just say, you admit that you were making a joke. sooo.... what ASSUMPTION did I make that was wrong? I as much as anyone else here do not care one bit about my success, so STOP making assumptions, dude... thats just being hypocritical. I am discussing the vocal orgasm, trying to inform others, and see what success others have had. don't get mad, if it means so little to you, as you have said.... ( "I'm sure if I really cared...") than what have I done to get under your skin so easily?? seems that you're just mad that I called you out on your petty joke...mattathensga
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LOL.... practice dude, practice... it IS possible, usually, its a chain reaction with women... once they start, they wont stop unless you allow them too....Originally posted by Chillisauce
hahah, if i could make my partner orgasm 25 times in one session i'd let everyone in my city know it over the loudspeaker, then form my own religion
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ethnomethodologist
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That is a great quote. True and insightful. Why don't people write more lessons on those two subjects? Those are THE two areas I have been trying to anchor in my life for the past few months...
Thanks, and since you were drunk when you wrote it, I think I feel like alcohol has something to offer again.
Why do you drink?
Are you an alcoholic?
mattathensga
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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
That is a great quote. True and insightful. Why don't people write more lessons on those two subjects? Those are THE two areas I have been trying to anchor in my life for the past few months...
Thanks, and since you were drunk when you wrote it, I think I feel like alcohol has something to offer again.
Why do you drink?
Are you an alcoholic?
Naah... I'm no Alcoholic, They have to attend meetings. I'm just a drunk.
as for why I drink, I work as an auto tech, alcohol numbs all the aches and pains of the daily work injuries.
ethnomethodologist
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*woo I just saved myself from losing a client* Talk about tooting my own horn. note to future self, interest/pain connection.
literotica.com. Stay away from the pictures.
Look at the "how to" page.
It has great tips on writing. Specific words and obscure uses to create different emotions. The sight is highliy sexual in nature. There are stories for any fetish you desire. I try to stay away from the stories, sometimes I spot a catchy title() and look for some pointers.
They've got some good teachings on why nerds can be sexy. Actually one of the stories describes sexual nerds. Like many guys on this site. They are nerds in essence... just like Kneel Strouse talks bout with Jimmy Kimmel.
Not that I know of. If you want some good advice though I got a site for you... It's on my 'top of da list' favorites for mental pictures and future plans.
literotica.com. Stay away from the pictures.
Look at the "how to" page.
It has great tips on writing. Specific words and obscure uses to create different emotions. The sight is highliy sexual in nature. There are stories for any fetish you desire. I try to stay away from the stories, sometimes I spot a catchy title(
) and look for some pointers. They've got some good teachings on why nerds can be sexy. Actually one of the stories describes sexual nerds. Like many guys on this site. They are nerds in essence... just like Kneel Strouse talks bout with Jimmy Kimmel.
Egoist
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David Schade's sex manual.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.