"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Valentine`s Day Street approach

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so simple, i was going with the bus, there was a cute hb8.50 she was looking at me, i was staying alpha on the chairs, (about 3 of them) with one foot in the air, totally relaxed and we get off the next station...
i let her walk in front, to see in what direction she is going (i didn`t hesitate) she walk`s same as me so i go after her:

Gap: Alone in Valentine`s Day?
Hb: (looking strange at me, smiling a little nervous) Yes...
Gap: Well if u already found me, i am the best Valentine for you that can exists, i am fun, smart, pretty and i have MONEY ! but i must buy a book... so i don`t know how much will remain
Hb: Hahahha
Gap: Where are you going?
Hb: X
Gap: Ok, so you will walk me there, (and i take her arm, she liked it)
Gap: Let me guess, i am the best thing that happened this day to you
Hb: Your almost right


then comes a very funny situation, we both suddenly put our hands in pockets and WE BOTH TAKE OUT ORBIT GUM same package

Gap: (more joking about this thing, that we are made for each other etc...)

some more rapport...
and i already get where i had to go
Gap: Look, (and i take her hand in my hands) i have to go , but i will like to meet you one day, do you go in clubs, maybe we dance a little?
Hb: Sure, i usually go in X club, are u going there?
Gap: Sometimes..and i start to get away from here slowly
Hb: Wait, tell me ur phone number and i will send u a msg if i go there this weekend
Gap: Ok, but don`t send me every minute 3 beeps
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sry nocturnal i thought that i should write here :)

averageFC u can`t believe, it is said that the best woman`s are the italian and the romanian ones :) i will put some pictures if u guys wan`t with some chicks but not now..


Joe, after that i had such a great power in me :) that i made one more approach but didn`t worked, the chick really was waiting her boyfriend, i stayed to see him :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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good job
 

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Life trainee


Hb: Wait, tell me ur phone number and i will send u a msg if i go there this weekend
Gap: Ok, but don`t send me every minute 3 beeps
she asked my number, gave me a beep, i saved her, and i walked away, she is giving me lots of messages now and **** like this :D
 

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Post the pics u promised us man ..can wait to see them! (seriously)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

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