"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR using SS to make a girl comfortable.

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Was at a restaurant on a date with a very nervous HB7.

Her discomfort (apparently there were some chicks she knew and didn't like working there) was really killing my DJing.

So I ran one of comfort patterns , asking her what she likes to do to relax when she gets home from work. She says she likes to take a hot bath , so we talked about taking a hot bath after work , what it feels like (she likes warm rather than scalding water), and added some details to make her experience it vividly (like the feeling of cool air coming in the wondow and mixsing with the hot bathroom air).

You cold just see her relax , by the end of the pattern she was leaning her headon her hand and staring at me dreamily , it was so cool!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's it man , you get her to talk about something she finds relaxing and as if by magic she relaxes.

Other options include talking about her favourite place or something.
 
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LOL!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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