"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR using SS to make a girl comfortable.

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Was at a restaurant on a date with a very nervous HB7.

Her discomfort (apparently there were some chicks she knew and didn't like working there) was really killing my DJing.

So I ran one of comfort patterns , asking her what she likes to do to relax when she gets home from work. She says she likes to take a hot bath , so we talked about taking a hot bath after work , what it feels like (she likes warm rather than scalding water), and added some details to make her experience it vividly (like the feeling of cool air coming in the wondow and mixsing with the hot bathroom air).

You cold just see her relax , by the end of the pattern she was leaning her headon her hand and staring at me dreamily , it was so cool!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's it man , you get her to talk about something she finds relaxing and as if by magic she relaxes.

Other options include talking about her favourite place or something.
 
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LOL!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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