so im sitting in the library again in the same spot where i picked up HB7 a couple weeks ago... i was really engulfed in my studies but i noticed a girl come in. she was an extremely fine black girl.
she walks right past me and sits down at a table behind me with one of her friends. as she's walking past i look up and make eye contact with her. she didnt look away and neither did i, and we both cracked a bit of a smile.
a little while later she walks by me again. again i look up and again there is some really solid/intense eye contact and we both smile again.
i guess i was intimidated by her being with her friend. i mean, when its just one-on-one i have no problem approaching. i wound up not approaching like an idiot. here's the worst part...when she finally left with her friend for good, she came up from behind me and wispered "bye..." to me. i had to look around for a second to make sure she was talking to me, which she was. i lamely replied "bye". i could have easily said "hold on a minute..." and started chatting her up...
im really pissed at myself right now. i've been approaching for a while and it feels good no matter what the outcome is. however, not approaching really blows... i dont plan on making the same mistake again. and if i see this foxy girl again, her number is mine!
she walks right past me and sits down at a table behind me with one of her friends. as she's walking past i look up and make eye contact with her. she didnt look away and neither did i, and we both cracked a bit of a smile.
a little while later she walks by me again. again i look up and again there is some really solid/intense eye contact and we both smile again.
i guess i was intimidated by her being with her friend. i mean, when its just one-on-one i have no problem approaching. i wound up not approaching like an idiot. here's the worst part...when she finally left with her friend for good, she came up from behind me and wispered "bye..." to me. i had to look around for a second to make sure she was talking to me, which she was. i lamely replied "bye". i could have easily said "hold on a minute..." and started chatting her up...
im really pissed at myself right now. i've been approaching for a while and it feels good no matter what the outcome is. however, not approaching really blows... i dont plan on making the same mistake again. and if i see this foxy girl again, her number is mine!
