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Don Juan
Hey all.
I've been on a couple of dates with this girl and she's blown my socks off like not many other girls have. Just want let you guys no what's gone down so far so that I may continue in the right direction/patch up anything I've potentially done wrong. All constructive input is welcomed!
Background: met this girl about three months ago. She was a new flatmate of one of my good friends. I went round there one day and randomly there is this smoking hot broad living there. Lucky b*stard. Anyway I was in a relationship (it wasn't going well: basically the gal was being too clingy) at the time of our first "date." By the second date I was a single man though...
First date. I organize to meet her in town around 7. I tell her we're going to a bar for some beer and pool. *She'd previously told me she hates pool b/c she sucks at it, but I took the fact that she readily went along with me as a good sign.* She's a bit of a ball-buster and the whole time we were just paying each other out, but having a laugh with it.
Example.
Me: I hate girls who straighten hair that would otherwise look really good (laughing at a girl who's really done a number on herself).
Her: I straightened my hair tonight!!
Me: Yeah, and did you hear me complementing you on it?? haha.
We move along to this really cool Tex-Mex style place (This is in Wellington, New Zealand), and have a beer and some fries there. Conversation gets on to the topic of relationships/sex. She wonders aloud how I am able to get such a hot girlfriend. I just laugh, shake my head and take a refreshing sip of a dos equis lager. She says she's in a casual relationship with this guy who manages a bar here. She mentions how good looking he is, and how he's great in bed etc etc. I tell her I think it's really cute how in love she is, and she gets all defensive saying she's not in love and it's not serious. She asks about my relationship and I subtley tell her it isn't going so well, and then change topic.
We go to a final bar and talk music, study (we're both at university) etc.
Anyway few days later I get in contact with her and say how we're doing that again in a week or so. in the interim I break up with my girlfriend. Jesus that was a drama. I randomly see this girl two days after and she's heard about it.
Second Date: She brings round a box of beers to mine (I don't know how she can be in such good shape with the amount of beer she drinks). We have a few before heading down to this school playground where we have a couple more. I'm joking around and she's loving it. I'm starting to get physical with her. Pushing her down the slide. Hitting her on the arm when she says something funny. She's not doing it back, but not shying away either.
We go to a casual place to get some food and I start asking the waitress to resolve an argument for us. The argument being, that I'm better looking than she is, but the girl is refusing to admit it (as an aside, I'm not that good looking. Face-wise anyway. I box competitively and do athletics but am definitely lean as opposed to buff). This gets us both laughing but the waitress doesn't realise I'm joking and is just looking at me like I'm retarded.
We move to a public playground thing (I'm not a kiddy-fiddler I promise). It's this lighthouse thing with a big slide and swings etc. It starts raining but we're semi undercover. Again, we've been busting balls all night. I told her that her hair looked better down, to which she replied "yeah whatever ****!!" *10mins later I noticed she'd subtely taken it down. haha*
Again I'm trying to push her down the slide but this time I get myself between her legs to do it. She's squealing and calling me a rapist but at the same time giggling and not pushing me out.
The rain kills the night though so we taxi back to hers/my mates place. I cook up some bacon sandwhiches. Yum.
I tell her that I'm not taking the couch and hop straight into her bed. She hops in also. Haven't kissed her or anything, and don't start. Go straight to sleep.
In the morning I wake up before she does and start gliding my hand down her back and side to wake her up. She does and doesn't stop me but doesn't turn to face me either. I do this for about 20mins then roll her over and start kissing her. We're going at it hammer and tongs then she stops me and says "I don't want to be the rebound girl." I laugh but then I realise she's serious so I just say "no" then kept kissing her things got hot and heavy and well, one thing led to another.
We both had places to be that day so went our separate ways. I asked her out this coming weekend and she has said yes.
How did I go? I'm thinking I want to get this girl into a relationship. Am I on the right track?
Governor.
I've been on a couple of dates with this girl and she's blown my socks off like not many other girls have. Just want let you guys no what's gone down so far so that I may continue in the right direction/patch up anything I've potentially done wrong. All constructive input is welcomed!
Background: met this girl about three months ago. She was a new flatmate of one of my good friends. I went round there one day and randomly there is this smoking hot broad living there. Lucky b*stard. Anyway I was in a relationship (it wasn't going well: basically the gal was being too clingy) at the time of our first "date." By the second date I was a single man though...
First date. I organize to meet her in town around 7. I tell her we're going to a bar for some beer and pool. *She'd previously told me she hates pool b/c she sucks at it, but I took the fact that she readily went along with me as a good sign.* She's a bit of a ball-buster and the whole time we were just paying each other out, but having a laugh with it.
Example.
Me: I hate girls who straighten hair that would otherwise look really good (laughing at a girl who's really done a number on herself).
Her: I straightened my hair tonight!!
Me: Yeah, and did you hear me complementing you on it?? haha.
We move along to this really cool Tex-Mex style place (This is in Wellington, New Zealand), and have a beer and some fries there. Conversation gets on to the topic of relationships/sex. She wonders aloud how I am able to get such a hot girlfriend. I just laugh, shake my head and take a refreshing sip of a dos equis lager. She says she's in a casual relationship with this guy who manages a bar here. She mentions how good looking he is, and how he's great in bed etc etc. I tell her I think it's really cute how in love she is, and she gets all defensive saying she's not in love and it's not serious. She asks about my relationship and I subtley tell her it isn't going so well, and then change topic.
We go to a final bar and talk music, study (we're both at university) etc.
Anyway few days later I get in contact with her and say how we're doing that again in a week or so. in the interim I break up with my girlfriend. Jesus that was a drama. I randomly see this girl two days after and she's heard about it.
Second Date: She brings round a box of beers to mine (I don't know how she can be in such good shape with the amount of beer she drinks). We have a few before heading down to this school playground where we have a couple more. I'm joking around and she's loving it. I'm starting to get physical with her. Pushing her down the slide. Hitting her on the arm when she says something funny. She's not doing it back, but not shying away either.
We go to a casual place to get some food and I start asking the waitress to resolve an argument for us. The argument being, that I'm better looking than she is, but the girl is refusing to admit it (as an aside, I'm not that good looking. Face-wise anyway. I box competitively and do athletics but am definitely lean as opposed to buff). This gets us both laughing but the waitress doesn't realise I'm joking and is just looking at me like I'm retarded.
We move to a public playground thing (I'm not a kiddy-fiddler I promise). It's this lighthouse thing with a big slide and swings etc. It starts raining but we're semi undercover. Again, we've been busting balls all night. I told her that her hair looked better down, to which she replied "yeah whatever ****!!" *10mins later I noticed she'd subtely taken it down. haha*
Again I'm trying to push her down the slide but this time I get myself between her legs to do it. She's squealing and calling me a rapist but at the same time giggling and not pushing me out.
The rain kills the night though so we taxi back to hers/my mates place. I cook up some bacon sandwhiches. Yum.
I tell her that I'm not taking the couch and hop straight into her bed. She hops in also. Haven't kissed her or anything, and don't start. Go straight to sleep.
In the morning I wake up before she does and start gliding my hand down her back and side to wake her up. She does and doesn't stop me but doesn't turn to face me either. I do this for about 20mins then roll her over and start kissing her. We're going at it hammer and tongs then she stops me and says "I don't want to be the rebound girl." I laugh but then I realise she's serious so I just say "no" then kept kissing her things got hot and heavy and well, one thing led to another.
We both had places to be that day so went our separate ways. I asked her out this coming weekend and she has said yes.
How did I go? I'm thinking I want to get this girl into a relationship. Am I on the right track?
Governor.
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