"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Top class Negging on msn --- convo & pic included!

syncmaster

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So i guess this counts as an e-field report. I met these girls the other day and i'm having the hardest time deciding what to do... which one should I pick?! The one in the convo is on the far right. Oh man, i love my job.



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Adam says:
So do you normally spend 12hrs a day on msn?

~DeAnna~ says:
Hahah .. me no ... i actually just got in for real like 10 minutes ago, i worked 8-5, then class 6-9 and ITV 9-NOW !! lol !!

Adam says:
suuuure - thats ok, i'll play along

Adam says:
so - before i get to the opinion thing. Are you a blonde or brunette?

~DeAnna~ says:
Haha ..seriously i am not an msn junkie ...

Adam says:
nah - just a nerd

~DeAnna~ says:
BLONDE

Adam says:
damn - too bad

~DeAnna~ says:
HAHAHA

~DeAnna~ says:
WHY ?

Adam says:
brunettes are cuter

Adam says:
it's common knowledge

~DeAnna~ says:
ohh i had no idea ... well my real roots are coming in ..LOL !!!

Adam says:
so are you a natural brunette or a natural blonde... fake hair doesn't count

Adam says:
no wigs either

~DeAnna~ says:
hahaha brunette, but it doesnt suit me !!

Adam says:
no? Are you the girl in the profile b/c it looks completley different from the pic you sent me - thats a real pain when ppl do that

~DeAnna~ says:
haha ... i die my hair alot !! LOL !! my pic is my profile is def me and the pic in my msn (i'm the one on the right is me)

~DeAnna~ says:
i recently went really blonde, but i am going back .. too much maintainece

Adam says:
yeah - blondes are high maintanance

~DeAnna~ says:
hahaha .....

Adam says:
lol - ok so, can i get your opinion on something?

~DeAnna~ says:
Sure thing ....

Adam says:
My buddy's girlfriend just found a shoebox he keeps hidden in a dresser drawer, and she’s really upset about it.

Adam says:
It’s nothing bad, just pictures of him and ex-girlfriends on vacation and old love letters he got in high school and stuff. But for some reason his girlfriend is freaking out about this and wants him to get rid of it or she’s threatening to break up with him. Are all girls this nuts?

~DeAnna~ says:
OHHH DEFINATLY !!! That is huge to a girl, it shows that he isnt letting go of his ex or ex's !! And although it may mean nothing, yes GIRLS ARE NUTS !! esp really jealous ones ...

Adam says:
haha so are you a "jealous one" - btw don't you keep a box full of ex boyfriend stuff - isn't that standard?

~DeAnna~ says:
hahaha i am not a jealous person, i am a very FREE SPIRTED person, normally its the guy telling me to calm down ...lol !! OF COURSE I have plently of boxes ..lol !!

Adam says:
lol so lots of ex boyfriends? - Whats wrong? they don't stick around? LOL jk

Adam says:
How old are you?

~DeAnna~ says:
hahah i dont allow them too ..lol !! I just love pictures, so i have tonnes of those and i have been in 2 serious realtionships soo yeah ... i have a box !! LOL !!

~DeAnna~ says:
I will be 20 in Nov !

Adam says:
cool - happy birthday. So whats it feel like now that your glory days are over? Define serious relationship btw... just out of curiosity sake

~DeAnna~ says:
My glory days ? Serious ..... like one was 2yr thing, my first "love" we are now best friends, still think my rents are sad we arent dating, and the other was over a 1yr, but he just wanted more comittment and i wasnt really wanthing the same ........ I guess they were the only 2 really worth talking about, or worth meeting my family !! LOL !!

Adam says:
Yeah glory days.... everything is gonna start to sag now. LOL. Wow thats awesome - yeah i've had an ltr - 3 years. She was cool. -- and a brunette . I'm pretty much in the same boat. How long ago did you guys break up?

Adam says:
it's cool because as guys get older they get distinguished.

~DeAnna~ says:
I broke up w. him when I went home for the summer ... Hahaha, I suppose !! But i dont think everything falls apart at 20 !! LOL !!

Adam says:
Men age like wine - women age like milk ! lol . K cool, well i gotta head out. But i'll ttyl.

~DeAnna~ says:
Ciao!

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Socialreject

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LOL massive neghit attack!

Funny read though :)
 

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lol, you charming DJ you. Look at how you got her hook, line, sinker. Good read. I haven't been following your FRs but are you a good conversationalist out in the real world as well? I definitely like the way you projected your-e-self.

I missed a day of work with horrible hayfever, you inspire me to open msn once again! HAHAHAA..
 

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Adam says:
lol - ok so, can i get your opinion on something?

~DeAnna~ says:
Sure thing ....

Adam says:
My buddy's girlfriend just found a shoebox he keeps hidden in a dresser drawer, and she’s really upset about it.

Adam says:
It’s nothing bad, just pictures of him and ex-girlfriends on vacation and old love letters he got in high school and stuff. But for some reason his girlfriend is freaking out about this and wants him to get rid of it or she’s threatening to break up with him. Are all girls this nuts?

Hahaha...somebody read "The Game"...;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sync...good job man. You truely nailed the c & f. By the way...the girls look great. Course you always know with these online gigs.....ya always gotta have that poser:eek: I outta try practicin my c & f skillz online. This wars made me a little rusty...not havin many girls around. Anyways, Ill look forward to more of your posts.
 

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That was pretty cool. Is that a picture of the Giant Breast Council or something?
 

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ITT: I look at that picture for a while.

Good job with the convo by the way. I think I might put up some of my finest moments, if i can be bothered finding them.

Syn.
 

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Good stuff! But try to come up with your own stuff. I always tease girls about their height, blonde vs brunnete is a classic ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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