"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Took my date rock climbing! (PICS)

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Igetit! said:
Boy! When I first saw some of the earliest replies to the OP,I was about to defend him against some of the negative comments,but when I saw the clicked the links provided by OTB,I was glad I held off. I would have felt like a fool if I had defended him,then later seen those links. Thanks OTB. At least I didn't get suckered in like some of the other members! Hee,hee.
ooooOOOO Igetit!!! is coming for the rescue, never fear!!

Bro, this is fake rock climbing with a girl that looks almost non-human. What the hell would you try to "defend"?! even if it was real.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LOL this was funny. I thought the OP was posting his own pics until I read it was his "date". :crackup:
 

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Omg That's My Dreamchick!!!!! She's So Fineeeeeeee!!!! Michael, You Sly Dog, You!!!! Tell Me Your Secret! I Love The Scent Of Bacne
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It amazes me how cynical some people are. Please stop criticizing people that are actually doing their thing and getting dates. Remember, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...
 

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amoka said:
It amazes me how cynical some people are. Please stop criticizing people that are actually doing their thing and getting dates. Remember, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...
It's fake buddy. Fake threads don't deserve sympathy.
 

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Follow-up FR

Well I couldn't resist waiting a couple days to call her... the date was unbelieveable... she's so awesome and gorgeous.

I made plans to go to a movie... but I might change it to go snowboarding instead.

To the jerks: post your FRs you a-holes! Jealousy makes you look bad!
 

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LOL...if you really are dating her, she is ugly as sin, man.
 
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You won't have to worry about her being taken or anything. She has manface damn! You should have photoshopped first.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man if you close your eyes and imagine, that snug wet feeling feels exactly the same. Quit hating on him.
 

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azanon said:
Man if you close your eyes and imagine, that snug wet feeling feels exactly the same. Quit hating on him.
Quite the bullsh*t. Shes gross, bro. No need to pretend to be a a "good, caring" person. And by the way, hes joking, this isnt real.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Quite the bullsh*t. Shes gross, bro. No need to pretend to be a a "good, caring" person. And by the way, hes joking, this isnt real.
Yo Oak - I was joking too. ;) I thought I made that quite obvious.:p
 
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